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About My Clients
You’re a high-achieving adult who looks like you have it together. Others see success, competence, and reliability. Internally, it’s pressure, self-criticism, and a sense that it’s never quite enough. The bar keeps moving, and it’s hard to feel settled even when things are going well. You may spend a lot of time thinking things through, questioning yourself, or trying to get it just right, only to feel like you’re still falling short.
How I Can Help You
I help you get underneath what’s driving the problem, not just manage the surface of it. That includes the patterns you’re stuck in, the pressure you put on yourself, and the expectations you’ve been carrying for a long time. We look at how those patterns show up in your work, your relationships, and how you think about yourself. I’ll point out what’s happening, help you connect it to where it comes from, and work with you to shift it so it stops playing out in the same way. This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about understanding what’s actually going on so you can make changes that hold.
Why I am a Good Fit for You
I bring a broad perspective from working across different settings and types of clients, which allows me to see situations from multiple angles rather than getting pulled into a single way of understanding the problem. I’m comfortable working with complexity. You don’t have to simplify your thoughts or experiences to be understood, and we don’t have to rush to easy answers. That allows us to stay with what matters instead of moving past it too quickly. With over 15 years of experience, I’m able to see what’s happening quickly and keep the work focused on what’s most useful, not just what’s easiest to talk about. You won’t have to explain or justify your identity here. I am experienced working with LGBTQ+, trans, poly, and kink-aligned clients, and I approach this work with respect and awareness of the broader systems that shape people’s lives.