Gottman Method

The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.

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I've got through Level One and Level Two of the Gottman training. I also use the Gottman Couples Assessment Tool as part of my couple work. I love the assessment as it gives such a clear picture of not just the trouble areas, but also areas of strength for the couple. Based on this assessment I use specific activities geared towards addressing the areas of concern for the couple. It gives out work focus and direction, which my clients find comfort in.

— Molly Lizzio, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Syracuse, NY
 

I have been trained in Levels 1, 2, & 3 of Gottman Couples Method. I have utilized this method for the last 3 years to help couples gain an in depth understanding of their relationship. This method also allows me to teach the clients skills to help alleviate the problems that are taking place in the relationship.

— LaShanna Stephens, Licensed Professional Counselor in Macon, GA

I've completed the three levels of Gottman Method Couples Therapy training, and I'm currently obtaining my certification. I've also read the majority of all of their books (Drs. John and Julie Gottman), as well as done additional webinar trainings. I receive ongoing consultation for this.

— Tara Vossenkemper, Counselor in Columbia, MO

Gottman Method therapy is a type of couples counseling based on over 40 years of research (that is still ongoing) into what creates happy, stable relationships. What ARE those people who are loving their relationships doing anyway? This type of couples therapy is based off the answers to that question and is very skills based. I will use it to help you reconnect with each other, have the conversations you haven't been able to have (or at least not well), and look forward to your future together.

— PK Ponti-Foss, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I am level 2 trained in Gottman Couples Therapy method and use this method as my primary couples therapy technique. Through the process of assessment, couples will have a clear treatment plan of their work early in the process to help guide the therapy. Couples will be able to know what is going well, what needs initial work, and long term goals for the relationship. By use of specific exercises, couples will establish a deeper level of intimacy as well as learn new patterns of communication which will facilitate efficient conflict resolution.

— Miranda Bayard-Clark, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lake Oswego, OR

I am Gottman level one trained clinician. This work can be done individually or in couples work. The content is also applicable to new families with new or additional children in helping the parents communicate in a healthy and effect ways during this time of change and transition in their lives. I am certified in the Bringing Baby Home™ curriculum which can be explored individually. Gottman work can also be applied in grief and loss challenges.

— Audrianna Gurr, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, OR
 

I am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist (CGT). I am the first Black psychotherapist in the world to become a CGT. The Gottman Method for couples counseling is a research based couples counseling modality that can help couples and other "non traditional" relationships repair, reconnect and revitalize. It is a leading edge treatment that can be used to work through just about any problem including communication issues, infidelity, trauma and substance abuse.

— John Edwards, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Oakland, CA
 

Completed Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy Addiction Recovery Training

— Rachelle Marshall, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Orange, CA

I am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist (CGT). I am the first Black psychotherapist in the world to become a CGT. The Gottman Method for couples counseling is a research based couples counseling modality that can help couples and other "non traditional" relationships repair, reconnect and revitalize. It is a leading edge treatment that can be used to work through just about any problem including communication issues, infidelity, trauma and substance abuse.

— John Edwards, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Oakland, CA

The Gottman's have spent over 40 years studying couples and relationships. They have identified what doesn't work and is toxic to relationships, and more importantly, what makes healthy couples, or "master's" work. I utilize the Gottman assessment and interventions to help couples build a strong foundation in order to heal from past wounds, and find new ways to connect and manage conflict.

— Caroline Biber, Clinical Social Worker in Charlotte, NC
 

Working with relationship is one of my favorite things to do. Often couples need support and I love offering that support! I have completed levels 1 and 2 of the Gottman training., as well as a 40 hour meditation training with Center for Conflict Resolution.

— kaseja wilder, Counselor in Eugene, OR

I am trained in Gottman Method therapy at level 3 and have worked with couples from this model since 2015. I love that Gottman Method is research based and has 40 years of practical application behind it's methodology and interventions. I use the Gottman Relationship Checkup with couples and meet with them both together and individually throughout the course of therapy. There are specific tools I use that help couples have a better relationship from day one of our work together. We practice these tools in session and work through the bumps so it's easier to implement at home.

— Heather Seguin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Upland, CA

I am Gottman level 3 trained. I utilize their handouts as part of the therapy process. I also offer suggestions from my work with others on how to resolve difficult issues.

— Christa Vermillera, Counselor in Melbourne, FL
 

I am trained in Level 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy. The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the couple relationship and integrates research-based interventions aimed to disarm conflicting verbal communication, increase intimacy, respect, and affection, remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy in conflicting situations, and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.

— Kerri-Anne Brown, Licensed Professional Counselor in Orlando, FL

When working with couples I primarily use the Gottman Method. Gottman Method focuses on helping couples increase respect and create an environment of appreciation for each other. As a result of this, couples tend to see an increase in intimacy and report that they are better able to navigate through conflict and are better able to process the aftermath of a conflict. Through the Gottman method couples gain education on relationships and learn skills to help them communicate and stay connected when experiencing stress or when they are in conflict. The Gottman method has a lot of data to support its efficacy which is one of the reasons I am such a fan of this approach.

— Gwendolyn Nelson-Terry, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Francisco, CA
 

The Gottman Method is a four part assessment process that begins with a history of the relationship, moves to the individuals personal history, and then comes back together for a joint session to focus on the best path forward. The Gottman method is the most highly researched couples' therapy method and has an incredible success rate when followed.

— Kristal DeSantis, Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TX

I am a level 2 certified Gottman trained couples therapist as well as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have held this license since 2004. This means I am highly trained when it comes to working with couples to resolve issues, look at long-standing patterns of ineffective behavior and communication while developing new ways of becoming the healthy couple they seek to be. The Gottman Method is highly recognized and valued around the world for its effectiveness.

— Laura (Lori) Patin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Eagle River, AK
 

Gottman technique is rooted in the Four Horsemen - behaviors couples engage in that can predict divorce. As a team, we can discover just how these behaviors are manifested in your relationship. We will one by one eradicate these destructive ways. I will help you learn communication skills, to feel closer and cherish each other.

— Elissa Grunblatt, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Amityville, NY

Completed Levels I and II of Gottman Method Couples Counseling, specializing in enhancing connection and communication to achieve greater fulfillment in relationships and marriage. Level III is the practicum level, which I will be completing in 2019.

— Kimberly Fann, Mental Health Counselor in Oviedo, FL
 

I am trained in Gottman Method therapy at level 3 and have worked with couples from this model since 2015. I love that Gottman Method is research based and has 40 years of practical application behind it's methodology and interventions. I use the Gottman Relationship Checkup with couples and meet with them both together and individually throughout the course of therapy. There are specific tools I use that help couples have a better relationship from day one of our work together. We practice these tools in session and work through the bumps so it's easier to implement at home.

— Heather Seguin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Upland, CA

I completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy Training Level I and Level II in 2011 and have been practicing it since that time.

— Heather McKenzie, Counselor in Raleigh, NC

I am currently a Level 1 Gottman practitioner and will be going to Level 2 training shortly. The Gottman approach includes a thorough assessment of the couple relationship and integrates research-based interventions to help couples cultivate healthy lasting relationships.

— Paula Kirsch, Clinical Social Worker in Detroit, MI
 

I am a level II Gottman informed therapist. This frame is nested in 40 years of legit af research about relationships. It demonstrates that the healthiest of couples and any form of relationship will disagree. The successful ones dance the dance better and focus on choices instead of berating. There are many techniques and skills to draw from this model and really help people move the conversation past being stuck in the same argument and getting to a resolution or dancing the dance better.

— Andrea Rábago, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TX

I have completed Levels 1-3 of Gottman Method Couple Therapy training and am now working with a consultant to become a Certified Gottman Method Couple Therapist.

— Sheila Addison, in Oakland, CA
 

Gottman is a specified approach to work with couples that is research-based and relatively short-term. It involves a comprehensive relationship analysis that usually involves 3-4 sessions and then a specific treatment plan which involves helping to reinforce the strengths a couple has and addressing their challenge areas, especially in the area of communication. Therapy sessions are a lab where clients work on their issues with each other and learn how to do things differently. I teach specific skills and there often is homework. I have found that couples that follow through practicing what they have learned at home often make significant progress. I have been trained in Levels I and 2 of Gottman which involved 5 full days.

— Karin Wandrei, Clinical Social Worker in Rohnert Park, CA

This systematic and research-based approach to helping individuals and couples with relationship concerns is highly effective. It involves numerous concepts and tools that are easily-understood and that you can start using right away.

— Kate McNulty, Clinical Social Worker in Portland, OR
 

When working with couples I primarily use the Gottman Method. Gottman Method focuses on helping couples increase respect and create an environment of appreciation for each other. As a result of this, couples tend to see an increase in intimacy and report that they are better able to navigate through conflict and are better able to process the aftermath of a conflict. Through the Gottman method couples gain education on relationships and learn skills to help them communicate and stay connected when experiencing stress or when they are in conflict. The Gottman method has a lot of data to support its efficacy which is one of the reasons I am such a fan of this approach.

— Gwendolyn Nelson-Terry, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Francisco, CA