The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.
Completed Levels 1 and 2 Clinical Training of the Gottman Method Couples Therapy
— Philip Gnilka, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Las Vegas, NVDrawing from Dr. Gottman's research, I specialize in helping couples improve their relationships and increase satisfaction. Through assessment tools and evidence-based approaches, I identify relationship strengths and areas of growth, then guide couples in developing effective communication skills, conflict resolution strategies, and ways to enhance intimacy. I provide a safe environment for couples to foster their partnerships and promote long-term relationship success.
— Lauren Garza, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist in , PAGottman Method Couples Therapy uses 50 years of research on communication in relationships to help clients hear/understand each other, move past conflicts and misunderstandings, and develop greater intimacy, trust, and commitment.
— Maggie Dungan, Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COI am a level 1 Gottman trained therapist in the process of level 2 completion. "The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication, increase intimacy, respect, and affection, remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy in conflicting situations, and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship." - John and Julie Gottman
— Ashlei Lien, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CAWorking with relationship is one of my favorite things to do. Often couples need support and I love offering that support! I have completed levels 1 and 2 of the Gottman training., as well as a 40 hour meditation training with Center for Conflict Resolution.
— kaseja wilder, Psychotherapist in Eugene, ORThe Gottman Method was developed by John and Julie Gottman and is the result of over 40 years of research into relationship success. Interventions are based on this research and designed to strengthen the areas of friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning.
— Sheila Kelly, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Torrance, CAI am a Level 3 Certified Gottman Method Couples counselor who brings a strong feminist, emotion-focused perspective to supporting couples and relationships to have the tools they need to create the relationships they want.
— Kristin Tucker, Associate Clinical Social Worker in Seattle, WAWhen working with couples I primarily use the Gottman Method. Gottman Method focuses on helping couples increase respect and create an environment of appreciation for each other. As a result of this, couples tend to see an increase in intimacy and report that they are better able to navigate through conflict and are better able to process the aftermath of a conflict. Through the Gottman method couples gain education on relationships and learn skills to help them communicate and stay connected when experiencing stress or when they are in conflict. The Gottman method has a lot of data to support its efficacy which is one of the reasons I am such a fan of this approach.
— Gwendolyn Nelson-Terry, Marriage & Family Therapist in Berkeley, CAThe goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship. Interventions are designed to help couples strengthen their relationships in three primary areas: friendship, This is a free quiz to help get an idea of your relationship connection. Gottmanconnect.com/quiz-stage
— Amy Studer, Licensed Professional Counselor in , MOI have completed Level 1 of Gottman Method training. Gottman Method is heavily researched with long term success with partnerships and couples.
— Sarah Newcomer, Marriage & Family Therapist in , OHGottman Method Couples Therapy Clinical Training, Levels one and two
— Happy Camper Counseling; Joanne Lagattolla, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Evanston, ILGottman Method couples therapy can help couples with a variety of issues, including: Communication problems Conflict resolution difficulties Intimacy issues Emotional distance Infidelity Premarital counseling Preparing for parenthood Parenting issues Blending families Life transitions
— Madelaine Ford, Mental Health Counselor in Gilbert, AZI am a Gottman Level 1 certified counselor. Although I employ other modalities for couples counseling, I find the Gottman techniques to be most effective in helping clients improve their communication with each other.
— Christine Kotlarski, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in ,I am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals."
— Caitlin Miller, Counselor in Chicago, ILLevel 1 training complete, Level 2 in progress.
— Elizabeth Hinkle, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Virginia Beach, VA