Sexual Problems

A sexual problem, sometimes called a sexual dysfunction, is a problem during any phase of the sexual sexual act (such as desire, arousal or orgasm). Although many people experience trouble with sex at some point, it is a topic that many people are hesitant to discuss. There are a number of specific sexual disorders, including sexual desire disorders (low libido), sexual arousal disorders (inability to become aroused – erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness, for example), orgasm disorders (delay or non-appearance of orgasms) and sexual pain disorders (painful intercourse, most commonly affecting women). A sexual problem can occur suddenly or develop slowly, over an extended period of time. The reasons for sexual problems can widely vary but may include factors such as fluctuating hormones, aging, stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, diet, medications, illness or past sexual trauma. If you are dealing with sexual problems, a qualified professional therapist can help you identify the cause and help you develop ways to cope. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s sexual problems experts today.

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You are not satisfied with what’s happening (or not happening) in your bedroom. You would like more sexual intimacy in your relationship with your partner but every time you ask for it, it blows up in your face. You are struggling with performance anxiety or sexual pain and you’ve been avoiding having sex all together. Is low libido or a sexual dysfunction keeping you from enjoying your sex life? Then, let’s get to work!

— Eleni Economides, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Rochester, NY
 

You are not satisfied with what’s happening (or not happening) in your bedroom. You would like more sexual intimacy in your relationship with your partner but every time you ask for it, it blows up in your face. You are struggling with performance anxiety or sexual pain and you’ve been avoiding having sex all together. Is low libido or a sexual dysfunction keeping you from enjoying your sex life? Then, let’s get to work! Contact me for a 15 minute FREE consultation today!

— Eleni Economides, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Rochester, NY

Sexual problems in a relationship can cover a wide spectrum of needs. Sometimes it is a desire discrepancy, other times it speaks to a physical or psychological trauma that has been experienced. I come from an approach of sexual empowerment and sex-positivity as I help my clients come to a better understanding of their own sexual and intimate needs and boundaries in a relationship. Helping clients recover from an affair or other sexual betrayal is a particular specialty of mine as well.

— Kristal DeSantis, Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TX

My background as a sexuality educator as well as being sex therapist means that I can give high quality information from an ethical, pleasure positive and clinically sound place. I teach classes on sexual skills and pleasure and keep up to date on classes, retreats and other info to help my clients create a healthy and robust sex life.

— Jamila Dawson, Sex Therapist in Los Angeles, CA

I am a sex therapist that can help you with sexual problems such as low/no desire, differences in desire between you and your partner, and painful sex.

— Cara Allan, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Denver, CO

We help couples work through sexual challenges. We help couples with desire discrepancies, communication around sex, sexual trauma history, reconnecting after becoming parents or medical illness, and wanting more enjoyment and fun in sex.

— Thrive Couple & Family Counseling Services, Counselor in Greenwood Village, CO
 

Infidelity/affairs/cheating, pain with intercourse, lack of desire or interest in sex, improving communication about sex, overcoming past sexual abuse or trauma, enhancing current sex life, resuming sex after baby, troubling fantasies, non-monogamy/open relationships, exploring sexual orientation or gender identity, poly relationships, kink, among others

— Corrin Voeller, Marriage & Family Therapist in St. Louis Park, MN

Low sexual desire Infidelity Mismatched desires and needs within a couple Physical sexual pain Emotional sexual pain Erectile dysfunction Delayed or impaired orgasm or ejaculation concerns Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, gender queer, intersex, and asexual health or curiosity Sexual trauma Embarrassment and anxiety in regards to sexual situations Concerns over what is “normal”

— Kelifern Pomeranz, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Menlo Park, CA
 

I want to help people find pleasure, joy, and confidence in their sexuality and relationships no matter what barriers they face. I do this by providing therapy grounded in feminist ideals and collaboration, a focus on strengths, trauma-informed care, and science-backed interventions. I provide a space for you to feel seen where you are.

— Casey Tanner, Counselor in Chicago, IL

It's easy to understand why anyone would have sexual problems. No one teaches us how to be healthy sexual beings. We're taught all kinds of stuff that's wrong and we have to make up a lot of what we do by trial and error. It's a silly way to learn something so vital to our lives. I'm sure that whatever you struggle with is common. It won't surprise me. Come see me to find out what no one would teach you in a safe caring way.

— Eddie Reece, Licensed Professional Counselor in Alpharetta, GA
 

Sex therapy includes addressing a wide array of concerns, such as difficulty with orgasm, sexual or pelvic pain, and problems achieving or maintaining an erection. Couples often meet with a Sex Therapist to work out tension or conflicts about how often and in what ways they want to have sex. I take a practical approach to work with individual clients and with couples who want to make improvements in their sex lives. The foundation of Sex Therapy includes giving people basic educational information and access to resources as a first step. If that doesn't result in the changes you want to make, then we consider more specific suggestions that are tailored to your particular problem. As you try the suggestions and recommendations of the therapist, hopefully you see improvement. If not, then we know more reflective or intensive therapy is indicated.

— Kate McNulty, Clinical Social Worker in Portland, OR

We are all entitled to a healthy, safe, and creative relationship with our own bodies and our own sexuality, however we choose to express this. Many, if not most, of us live with unhealthy and unhelpful messages about sex and sexuality that we have downloaded from a toxic and shame-based culture. Others of us have the additional burden of surviving real trauma around sex, whether physical or emotional or both. I've made it a personal mission to help people overcome shame and sexual disconnection. I use both practical sex-education (most of us never got!) as well as gentle exploration of the emotional and symbolic sides of sex and sexuality to lead people to more healing, fulfillment, and joy in their sexual and intimate lives.

— jonathan burstein, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Berkeley, CA

My specialty is helping people with sexual problems, particularly: erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, vaginismus, painful sex, lack of orgasm, lack of sex between partners, and sexless 'marriages.' Helping people overcome sexual fears, inhibitions, and performance anxiety so that they can be their best sexual self is my passion.

— Natalie Finegood Goldberg, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in beverly hills, CA
 

Clients who report sexual problems, report varying libidos, lack of sexual desire, lack of pleasure during sex, infidelity, pornography watching/addiction, difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, lack if intimate connection, triggers during sex related to previous trauma.

— Marissa Talarico, Counselor in Vancovuer, WA
 

Men who have tried scary gadgets to treat their sexual dysfunctions to no avail can heal themselves with the tools learned in our proprietary programs. Woman are judged in all of aspects of their lives on the expression of their sexuality. We will work together to help woman harness their own powerful sexuality. People suffering from disabilities, injuries and PTSD find enormous relief and comfort through touch therapy sessions.

— Rachael Rainey, Sex Therapist in Sparks, NV

I have specialized training in sex therapy and have extensive experience with paraphilia-related disorders, sexual health concerns, desire discrepancy issues, erectile/ ejaculation issues and sexual pain.

— Alana Ogilvie, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

"Sex is not a thing you do, it is a place you go." Esther Perel stated this and I could not agree more. Unfortunately many of us have not been given clear directions on how to arrive to this place of sexuality, sensuality, and pleasure. I feel confident in supporting you and your partner(s) in exploring, expanding, and healing your sexual relationship with each other and yourself. We’ll work together to create forward-thinking tools to help you speak clearly and sincerely around what you need to enjoy the intimate life you want.

— Madeline Fox, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I have experience working with sexual problems including avoidance and compulsions. I also enjoy supporting communities that can experience stigma and oppression around sexuality, including those in open relationship, involved in kink and sex work and those identifying as Transgender and GNC.

— Sarah Blaszczak, in Portland, OR