Robin Roemer (she/her/hers)

Relationship structures outside of mononormative standards come with their own unique benefits and challenges. My job as a poly-affirming therapist is to dispel shame around non-monogamy and help guide you towards the most ethical and supportive practices. I have both personal and professional experience with non-monogamy and am a firm believer that we are all capable of giving and receiving the kind of love that fulfills us.

Relationships open us up to old emotional wounds and touch the most tender parts of our psyche. As a relationship therapist, I hope to help you explore your own values, needs and desires while navigating partnerships with other unique individuals with their own values, needs and desires. Expect to grow in the areas of communication, healthy conflict, and differentiation while building trust and lasting love.

Spirituality and religion can be a lifeline and an important foundation for many, but for some carries the weight of trauma in the form of abuse. When we are able to break out of a controlling or unhealthy spiritual environment, many times our worlds are turned upside down. We are disconnected from friends and family and the very ideas we once held as truth. I work to connect my client's back to themselves.

Working to understand your own attachment style can held you heal from past wounds and move through relationships with more self-awareness and confidence.

Relationships can be difficult, but couples/partner work can help us get to the root of our issues, understand our communication patterns and styles, and resolve conflict in healthier ways.

In narrative therapy we are not the problem, the problem is the problem. The stories we tell ourselves have a way of rooting themselves in our thoughts and behaviors. Let's work to uncover your innate strengths and resources and begin to tell a fuller story of who you are.

Life changes so much when we lose someone close to us. We are expected to “let go” when this person still feels very present in our daily thoughts and actions. We tend to become preoccupied with death and with the loss itself, and for good reason- grief can feel so painful and isolating. How do you carry the legacy of those we have lost and integrate them into our lives in new ways while moving forward? Let’s honor that loss by rebelling against this idea that we have to forget or leave behind.

My masters specialization was in LGBT-Affirmative Therapy and I trained at the LA LGBT Center. As a member and advocate of this community, I enjoy working as a guide and collaborator in my client's journeys of self-compassion and self-discovery. Many of us feel stuck in roles we’ve been assigned and in stories that we’ve outgrown. Our work in therapy is to shift our perspective, allowing ourselves to see a much more honest and nuanced view of who we are and who we’d like to be.

Bringing more awareness and acceptance to what we are feeling can create more space between emotional triggers and our reactions. MIndfulness can help us feel more grounded and give us more choice over our automatic responses.

It's not you against each other, but all of us against the problems. I love working with partners committed to getting on the same team and working together to understand one another in order to move through their problems. I take a collaborative approach in relationship therapy because I want to help you build the type of partnerships you desire! Each of us has unique values, needs and hopes. Let's build the kind of relationship that works for everyone.

It's not you against each other, but all of us against the problems. I love working with partners committed to getting on the same team and working together to understand one another in order to move through their problems. I take a collaborative approach in relationship therapy because I want to help you build the type of partnerships you desire! Each of us has unique values, needs and hopes. Let's build the kind of relationship that works for everyone.

It's not you against each other, but all of us against the problems. I love working with partners committed to getting on the same team and working together to understand one another in order to move through their problems. I take a collaborative approach in relationship therapy because I want to help you build the type of partnerships you desire! Each of us has unique values, needs and hopes. Let's build the kind of relationship that works for everyone.

It's not you against each other, but all of us against the problems. I love working with partners committed to getting on the same team and working together to understand one another in order to move through their problems. I take a collaborative approach in relationship therapy because I want to help you build the type of partnerships you desire! Each of us has unique values, needs and hopes. Let's build the kind of relationship that works for everyone.