“Swoon” Show Notes: Episode #111 – Let's Get Wet: Wet Sex and You

Jeff Guenther, LPC on May 02, 2021 in swoon

In today's episode, Julie and Gina answer listener questions about all the sexual fluids: lubrication, ejaculation, menstruation, semen, and squirting.

Call Gina and Julie and get your question on air in a future episode: 971-202-0869!

This episode covers:

  • Questions about wetness, sexual lubrication, and fluids
  • How to have more wet sex
  • What if there's not enough lubrication?
  • What is normal, and what is gross?
  • How to clean up after wet sex


                            Memorable quotes

                            “Let's get wet."

                            "Is this normal, or is this gross?"

                            "Bodies do wet things."

                            "Does it really matter what's happening as long as you're enjoying it?"

                            "The less-pleasurable sex we hear about people having is always because there's a 'have-to's, or pressure or obligation about doing what's 'right.'"

                            "It's okay to set up your sexual experience to feel sexy and be ready for clean-up."

                            "You may want to add extra lubricant."

                            "What if it tastes or smells funny?"

                            Resources from the Podcast

                            Lelo Personal Moisturizer

                            Lelo Sex Toy Cleaning Spray
                            Lelo Massage Oil Candle

                            Pjur Brand Personal Lubricant

                            Bijoux Foreplay Sampler Set of Lubricants

                            Love More, Fight Less: Communication Skills Every Couple Needs: A Relationship Workbook for Couples by Gina Senarighi

                            Action Steps

                            Call 971-202-0869 and leave your question and you might hear us answer on air!

                            Get Gina's book on communication.

                            Hire a therapist or a coach

                            Looking for professional relationship support? Connect with Gina

                            Looking for a therapist in Oregon? Connect with Julie

                            Get support

                            Join Julie and Gina for the Best Sex of Your Life in 2021

                            Love More Fight Less: A Relationship Workbook, Gina Senarighi

                            Your Swoon hosts

                            Gina Senarighi, MS, MA, CPC is a sexuality counselor and communication consultant specializing in healthy boundaries, passionate relationships, jealousy, and infidelity. She supports non-traditional couples all over the world as a retreat leader and certified relationship coach.
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                            Julie Jeske, LPC is a sex and relationship counselor. She has a private practice where she helps clients increase intimacy, ignite passion and deepen their connection to themselves and others. Julie especially loves to help women discover who they are sexually. Through counseling, online classes, or in-person retreats; her clients learn how to talk about their sexual and relationship desires, and explore ways to make them a reality.
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                            Jeff Guenther is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ashville, NC.

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