Services
- Individual
- Couples
- Family
About My Clients
People come to me for all kinds of reasons - anxiety, relationships, self-worth, transitions, meaning, or simply a sense that something is not working. Some arrive with remarkable insight; others have no idea where to begin, and both work just fine. We can get curious about the patterns shaping your life, how they came to make sense, what they protect, and whether they still fit. We can think deeply, feel honestly, laugh occasionally, and practice the difficult, necessary work of change.
My Background and Approach
My approach is warm, direct, playful, and deeply integrative. Therapy with me can move between relationships, emotions, the body, old stories, practical problems, and the larger questions of identity and meaning. We may spend one session sitting closely with a feeling and the next happily taking an idea apart. The larger goals are greater integration, regulation, cognitive flexibility, and an increasing capacity to inhabit the complexity of your own life. Much of my work has grown around three practices - differentiation, dialectics, and deconstruction. We learn to observe without becoming, allow felt experience without being overwhelmed by it, hold competing truths with greater flexibility, and get curious about how the pieces of our lives became interconnected. I draw from family systems, attachment, experiential and existential therapy, Buddhist psychology, somatic approaches, and psychological and philosophical traditions ranging from Aristotle to Alan Watts. I have worked in men
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I believe we are complicated creatures, and that is mostly good news. We can be kind and selfish, courageous and frightened, deeply wise in one moment and spectacularly foolish in the next. Maturity may be less about resolving these contradictions than inhabiting them with greater honesty, flexibility, and humor. There is relief in remembering that a thought is something we are having, an emotion is something moving through us, and neither needs to become the whole story of who we are. I believe change is difficult, constant, and necessary. Relationships matter enormously. So do bodies, ideas, music, mountains, play, grief, awe, and occasionally doing something that makes absolutely no practical sense. My spirituality is curious rather than certain. I find meaning in Buddhist psychology, philosophy, nature, science, and the strange fact that we get to be conscious for a little while at all. I am interested in helping people inhabit that experience more fully.