Sarah Howeth (She/Her)

LMFT, EFT Certified
Accepting Clients

The heart of what I do is support couples and relationships in our community.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , OR

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Group

About My Clients

When I work with couples and relationships, I’m interested in helping support you in navigating tough conversations, building a solid foundation together, and getting your relational needs met. I am passionate about working with couples and relationships around: getting free from the cycle of conflict, communicating more skillfully together, mending and tending to trust issues, finding more sexual satisfaction, healing old hurts, and sinking into more relational security together.

My Background and Approach

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a research-based approach used to deepen emotional connection and foster secure, lasting relationships. Rather than focusing on surface-level disagreements, EFT guides you toward the emotional needs and attachment patterns that shape how you show up in your relationship. Most couples don’t get stuck because they don’t care — they get stuck because they’re caught in a cycle that leaves both partners feeling unheard, misunderstood, or alone. EFT helps you change that cycle.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

Couples and intimate partners all have patterns in the way that they relate based on their early attachment histories. What this means is that when we get into relationship, we might find ourselves having the same argument about the dishes that doesn't actually feel like it is about the dishes. What I'm interested in helping you do is get to the heart of the matter and communicate about it together. I am Certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples. In addition, I bring an anti-oppressive lens to my work with clients. I am a white, cis, able-bodied, middle-class woman living and working in Portland, Oregon (occupied land of the Clackamas and Cowlitz). I am affirming of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory and open relationships. I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, actively learning anti-racist, body positive, sex positive, and kink positive.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Couples Counseling Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
Other Techniques
  • Attachment Theory
  • Couples Counseling
  • Depth Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Hakomi
  • Harm Reduction Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Nonviolent Communication
  • Sensorimotor Psychotherapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB)
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Attachment Marriage Counseling Relationship Issues
Other Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Men's Issues
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sexual Problems
  • Women's Issues
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Out of Network
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 5 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $195 - 135/session

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