Ryan Kozisek (they/them)

Accepting Clients

Wáa sá i tuwatee/how is your spirit? I am a trans, queer, neurodivergent, Indigenous/white person living with chronic illness and disability

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in California
Supervised by Dr. Sheila Addison, LMFT

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Group

About My Clients

I see clients from all walks of life, and I specialize in Gestalt Therapy, EMDR, and EFT for 2SLGBTQIA+ folx and their loved ones. Additional populations and experiences I have expertise in serving are chronic illness/pain, disability, neurodivergence, kink/BDSM, polyam/CNM, activists, artists/craftspeople, veterinarians/vet techs/animal care professionals, lab techs, academics and students, therapist trainees, and anyone who identifies as part of nerd/geek community or fandom.

My Background and Approach

My approach is non-pathologizing, liberatory, and decolonial, with a body-neutrality ethic. I make space for complexity, intensity, and uncertainty. My primary training is in Gestalt, a kind of mindfulness-based experiential and somatic therapy that encourages us to “be present with what is present.” I also bring in Parts Work, Mindfulness and Self-compassion, Attachment Theory, Narrative Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy. All of these modalities play well together, because they help us connect the dots between the emotions, tendencies, and survival strategies we have now and the events, systems, stories, and relationships that shaped us throughout our lives, allowing us to release patterns that no longer serve us and move forward with intention. Additionally, I am trained in EMDR, a technique that helps us change our relationships with traumatic experiences, and EFT which helps us identify, connect with, understand, and communicate our feelings and attachment styles.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I strongly believe that people are not broken. Systems are broken, and people justifiably struggle to survive and thrive within them.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Gestalt Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Attachment Theory
  • Couples Counseling
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Existential Therapy
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Integral Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Transpersonal Therapy
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Integrative Therapy
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Chronic Pain or Illness Gender Identity Therapy LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
Other Issues
  • ADHD Therapists
  • Anxiety
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • Body Image Issues
  • Burnout
  • Chronic Pain or Illness
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Grief or Loss
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Physical Disability
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Spirituality
  • Systemic Oppression Therapy
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Christianity
  • Wicca/Paganism
  • Interfaith
  • Multifaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 3 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $100 - 165/session

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