Rachel Friendly (she|her|hers)

Ph.D.
Accepting Clients

I help over-accommodating women and queer folks learn to set boundaries and develop self-compassion & self-trust. Licensed in MA/CA/DC/VA.

Clinical Psychologist in North Springfield, VA

Services
  • Individual

About My Clients

From the outside, it seems like everything is fine. But beneath the surface, you're exhausted from putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own. Setting boundaries feels impossible, guilt shows up whenever you try, and you somehow feel like you're both too much and never enough. Therapy can help you break these patterns, reconnect with yourself, and build a life that reflects what you truly want. I'd be honored to help.

My Background and Approach

Clients often tell me they look forward to therapy because they know they'll be met with warmth, curiosity, and compassion, not judgment. My approach is collaborative and engaged: I won't simply sit back and nod, nor will I tell you what to do. Instead, we'll work together to better understand your experiences, identify patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and help you move toward the life you want. I believe our relationships shape how we see ourselves and others, and that meaningful change comes from understanding those patterns while recognizing the impact of systems of power and oppression on our wellbeing. I integrate evidence-based approaches, including Internal Family Systems (IFS), to help clients heal, grow, and move toward a more fulfilling life. Licensed Clinical Psychologist since 2012 Website: www.rachelwfriendly.com

My Values as a Therapist

I believe in the inherent worth and dignity of every human being. My goal is to create a space in which you feel free to be your authentic, truthful, whole self without fear of judgment. I value self-exploration and taking accountability for one's life and choices while simultaneously calling out and working to dismantle the systems that hold us down and make us feel small and unworthy of love. I am committed to my own growth and am always working to take accountability for my own privilege and blind spots, including regularly seeking out training and resources around anti-racism work and trans/non-binary/gender affirming care. I am also a massive nerd and a particular super-fan of Doctor Who (although I won't judge you if you have never seen it!). I believe in the power of connection between people, and that relationships are the key to a fulfilling and meaningful life!

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Feminist Therapy Internal Family Systems Relational Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Gender Identity Therapy LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists Women's Issues
Other Issues
  • Attachment
  • Codependency
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Women's Issues
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Out of Network
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Judaism
  • Interfaith
  • Multifaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 14 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $250 - 530/session

Info

Email Rachel
8001 Forbes Place
Suite 211
North Springfield, VA 22151

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