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About My Clients
I specialize in helping people with chaotic family backgrounds to navigate anxiety, stress, depression, life transitions, role conflict, identity struggles, and various other challenges in their current life. In other words, I help people stop paying for their parents' decisions. Whether you find yourself in a loyalty conflict or you're simply trying to find your way through life, my job is to help you learn how to choose yourself.
My Background and Approach
My approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Person-centered Therapy, and Existential therapy to help you identify and reshape unhelpful thought patterns, evaluate underlying beliefs, and align actions with core values. My aim is to help you become who you want to be, regardless of who anyone else wants you to be. If you are unsure about whether you should reach out, please do! Whether it's for a full session or a free consultation, I'll be here to help.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I believe that from the moment we develop sentience as children, we begin experimenting with the world around us. We develop tools to solve problems, and if they seem to get the job done, we’re likely to use them again. If a child engages in people-pleasing behaviors to avoid conflict and it works, they’re likely to do it again! When this child grows up, they may need to address these behaviors and develop legitimate conflict-management skills, but they don’t have to beat themselves up for being a ‘people-pleaser’, as they were simply using the tools they had on hand. This lens allows people to give themselves grace and pursue growth from a self-accepting perspective. As we mature, so do our problems, and eventually, the tools we developed for them may become outdated. Now, as an adult, you get to decide what stays and what shifts.
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