Nicholas Seibel LMFT

(he/him)

Accepting Clients

I'm Nick and I think it's amazing you have taken that step to seek out support when so many people feel so much stigma around mental health.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in California

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Services

  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

I have a deep love for working with the LGBTQIA+ community especially gay and queer men navigating identity, belonging, minority stress, and relational healing. This community is close to my heart, and I bring both clinical training and lived understanding into that work. I often work with men queer or straight who are ready to let their guard down: thoughtful, self-aware people who sense something needs to shift and are willing to be vulnerable, even when it's scary.

My Background and Approach

I draw from several approaches depending on what fits you best: Internal Family Systems (IFS) Getting curious about the different "parts" of you (the protectors, the wounded parts, the reactive parts) and helping you reconnect with your calm, confident core Self. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Especially useful alongside other methods for trauma, substance use, and major life transitions. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Practical distress tolerance skills, paired with room for spiritual (not religious) meaning-making when it's helpful. Person-Centered (Rogerian) Unconditional positive regard, full stop. Many people have never had someone fully in their corner I start there. Solution-Focused Brief Treatment We'll set a roadmap early on, without rushing the work.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community myself, a trauma survivor, and someone who knows firsthand what it's like to navigate the world feeling fundamentally different. I'm not working from a textbook understanding of masking or minority stress I know it from the inside, and that changes the kind of space I can offer you. I've been told I have a calm presence and that I can be direct in a kind way and I think real therapy needs both. I won't just reflect your words back at you. I'll gently challenge you when it serves you, always from a place of genuine care. I also bring humor into the room, because life is hard enough, and sometimes laughter is the work it can be the moment the armor comes off.

Techniques I Use

Specialties

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Solution Focused Brief Therapy

Other Techniques

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Sex Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

Issues I Treat

Specialties

Abuse Addiction Men's Issues

Other Issues

  • ADHD Therapists
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Body Image Issues
  • Depression
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Medication Management
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Suicidal Thoughts

Client Focus

Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Languages
English

Qualifications

License
LMFT, State of California · #159751
Education
Masters of Counseling Psychology
Years in practice
1 year

Insurance Plans Accepted

  • Aetna
  • Optum
  • Blue Shield of California
  • UnitedHealthcare (Optum)

I offer online counseling in the following states:

I have experience with the following

  • Agnosticism
  • Atheism
  • Christianity

Hours & Availability

Monday 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Tuesday 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Wednesday 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Thursday 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Friday 11:00 AM – 9:00 PM
SaturdayClosed
SundayClosed
New clients welcome
Currently accepting new clients
Telehealth
Available

At A Glance

  • Experience: 1 year of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $180 - 225/session

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