Mary Brinkmeyer (she/her)

Ph.D.
Accepting Clients

I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of training and experience with specialization in trauma and LGBTQ+ issues.

Clinical Psychologist in New York

Services
  • Individual

About My Clients

I have worked extensively with people who are dealing with depression and anxiety, as well life-transitions. I have intensive training and experience helping those with trauma, including those who have survived child abuse and neglect, sexual assault, combat-related trauma, and moral injury. Given my extensive work with Veterans and on an orthopedic/spinal service, I also have much experience addressing chronic pain. For the past decade, I’ve also specialized in LGBTQ+-affirming care.

My Background and Approach

My approach above all is based in compassion and understanding within the humanistic tradition - and is also evidence-based, incorporating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and trauma-focused interventions like Cognitive Processing Therapy and Prolonged Exposure. When working with families who are struggling to parent young children I rely on Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), a therapy I have used in much of my career. Whether we are working on insight, practical strategies and solutions, skill building, value clarification, or mindfulness techniques, we will do so collaboratively. You set the pace for our work together. I am sex-positive, kink-positive, and poly-affirming in psychotherapy. For trans patients, I am very familiar with medical transition and can provide letters to support interventions.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

Psychology has allowed me to combine my love of learning with my passion for helping others and my commitment to social justice. I was inspired mostly by my grandfather, a staunch advocate in the battle for Civil Rights in this country. My career has included clinical care, teaching, leadership, and advocacy, and supporting military and veteran communities, including military families, and most recently standing up to discriminatory practices recently introduced at the VA. As a member of the LGBTQ community, I am committed to creating safe spaces to explore identity and sexuality wherever you may fall on the gender-sexuality spectrum. Volunteer work is important to me, and I spent several years recently volunteering with refugees from Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, and Sudan. I coordinated a weekly ESL outreach program, and I was on the board of Hampton Roads Refugee Relief. This experience emphasized the importance of cultural humility, openness, and social justice.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Anger Management Therapy
  • Attachment Theory
  • Exposure Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Eclectic Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Trauma Therapy
  • Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Chronic Pain or Illness LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Other Issues
  • Abuse
  • Addiction
  • ADHD Therapists
  • Adoption Issues
  • Anger Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • Bipolar
  • Body Image Issues
  • Burnout
  • Cancer
  • Child Issues
  • Chronic Pain or Illness
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Dissociative Disorders
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence or Intimate Partner Violence
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Grief or Loss
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • Immigration/Acculturation
  • Infertility
  • Insomnia
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  • Parenting
  • Personality Disorders
  • Physical Disability
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Pregnancy and Postpartum
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm
  • Sexual Abuse or Assault
  • Sexual Problems
  • Suicidal Thoughts
  • Systemic Oppression Therapy
  • Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)
  • Veterans/Military Service
  • Women's Issues
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Aetna
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 18 years of practice
  • Rate: $300/session

Reach out to Mary