Marina Tonkonogy

Marriage and Family Therapist
Accepting Clients

I’m a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of professional experience.

Addictions Counselor in California

Services
  • Individual

About My Clients

I work with people who experience chronic loneliness that often has nothing to do with social skills or anxiety, but with how they think, feel, relate, and seek meaning. My work supports those navigating identity, belonging, emotional honesty, and inner transformation through a process that values both psychological insight and personal responsibility. While I welcome clients from all backgrounds, I’m especially attuned to those who seek meaningful connection without self-erasure.

My Background and Approach

I don’t approach therapy as a set of tools to fix what’s broken. I see it as a relational space where clarity emerges through thoughtful, honest exploration. My orientation is psychodynamic and insight-based, drawing from Jungian and existential traditions. I often work with those who feel emotionally or culturally out of place, or with people who long for connection but refuse to compromise on depth or integrity to find it. This work isn’t about quick solutions. It’s about discovering how your sense of self has been shaped, interrupted, or overlooked – and how it might be reclaimed in a way that feels true.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I don't believe that emotional healing is the same as symptom management or surface-level solutions. What I offer is a thoughtful, private space where you can explore your experience honestly, reconnect with your sense of self, and begin to uncover meaning, strength, and possibility even in the presence of ongoing loneliness. Through the Jungian analytical approach, we explore not just the symptoms of loneliness but its deeper meaning in your life’s story. This work draws from the understanding that our psyche holds profound wisdom about our authentic path, even within our suffering. I also bring an existential perspective that honors your sovereignty and capacity for choice. Together, we examine not only what has shaped your experience, but how you can consciously engage with your freedom and responsibility in creating meaning from your circumstances.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Depth Therapy Existential Therapy Psychoanalytic
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Attachment Theory
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Contemplative Therapy
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Depth Therapy
  • Existential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic Therapy

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Immigration/Acculturation Relationship Issues Self-Esteem
Other Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Immigration/Acculturation
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Spirituality
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Aetna
  • Cigna
  • Anthem
  • Optum
  • United Healthcare
  • Anthem Blue Cross Medical
  • UnitedHealthcare
  • Quest Behavioral Health
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 22 years of practice
  • Languages: English, Русский
  • Rate: $150 - 150/session

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