Lauren Sill (she/her)

MA, AMFT
Accepting Clients

Hi, my name is Lauren Sill. I am passionate about helping people learn about themselves and grow in a client-centered, nonjudgmental space.

Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in California
Supervised by Melissa Klass

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

I work with lots of high achievers in high stress fields, who seem to the outside world like they have it all together, but come to therapy feeling like they are falling apart inside. Therapy is so useful for exploring where these ideas came from, learning to set boundaries around work and achievement, and treating ourselves with more compassion. I also have experience with working with nonmonogamous relationships and ADHD/neurodivergent clients in a non-pathologizing, supportive atmosphere.

My Background and Approach

Before becoming a therapist, I was a hairstylist for 15 years. I learned how interested I was in people's lives, and how honored I felt to be the audience for their stories. As a therapist, I still believe our relationship matters most in how comfortable clients feel opening up.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

As someone who became aware of my bisexuality and neurodivergence in my 30's, I know how much societal conditioning and heteronormativity can influence and confuse us. It's important to me to be non-pathologizing about uncommon relationship structures or sexual preferences. I believe in being culturally humble and learning as much as I can about a client's culture that is different from mine, while not being afraid to acknowledge what I don't know in general. I believe that patriarchy has not only hurt women and non-binary folks, but also men, and everyone should be free to be their truest self, free from gendered pressures or hierarchy. I believe that (especially white) therapists have a responsibility to do their own ongoing personal work around anti-racism as well as internalized misogyny, fatphobia, and ageism.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Attachment Theory Coaching Gestalt Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Attachment Theory
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Couples Counseling
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Existential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Family Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy
  • Imago Relationship Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Internal Family Systems

Issues I Treat

Specialties
ADHD Therapists Men's Issues Polyamorous and Open Relationships
Other Issues
  • Addiction
  • ADHD Therapists
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Body Image Issues
  • Burnout
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence or Intimate Partner Violence
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Grief or Loss
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • Infertility
  • Learning Disorders
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Men's Issues
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Pregnancy and Postpartum
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse or Assault
  • Sexual Problems
  • Spirituality
  • Teen Issues
  • Women's Issues
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 6 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $175 - 200/session

Reach out to Lauren