Kim Rollins Vervain LCMHCA

I specialize in attachment-based therapy, helping individuals, couples, and parents build safer, more secure connections. I integrate neuroscience, mindfulness, and relational skills to help clients heal old wounds, break reactive cycles, and develop closeness that feels steady and supportive — with themselves and others.

I integrate Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help partners slow down conflict cycles and better understand the emotions underneath. EFT supports couples in becoming more emotionally responsive to each other, rebuilding safety, and deepening trust. I am continuing advanced training in EFT to strengthen this work.

I use Gottman-informed assessment and interventions to help couples improve communication, repair trust, manage conflict, and strengthen friendship and intimacy. This research-based approach offers clear tools and structure while still honoring each partner’s emotional experience.

Many couples come to me feeling stuck in painful patterns — one person shuts down, the other gets louder, and both feel unseen. I help partners slow down conflict, understand what’s happening underneath, and rebuild emotional safety. My work is especially supportive for couples navigating ADHD, trauma, or neurodivergent-neurotypical dynamics.

I help individuals and couples understand and shift the relational patterns that keep them feeling disconnected, anxious, or alone — even in relationships that matter deeply. Together, we explore attachment wounds, communication struggles, boundaries, and people-pleasing cycles so that connection can feel calmer, steadier, and more authentic.

ADHD can deeply impact relationships, communication, emotional regulation, and self-worth — and many people don’t realize it’s part of the picture until they’re already overwhelmed. I work from a neurodiversity-affirming lens to help clients and couples understand their wiring without shame, reduce reactivity, and create systems and communication that actually work for real life.

Relationships don't struggle in a vacuum. Attachment wounds, neurodivergent wiring, stress, and unspoken expectations all shape how we show up with the people we love. I work with individuals and couples to untangle what's driving disconnection — whether that's a pattern that's been there since childhood or something that's emerged in the relationship itself — and find a path toward something that actually feels good.

Marriage is a living system — it shifts, gets stuck, and sometimes needs an outside perspective to move again. I work with couples navigating conflict, disconnection, and communication breakdowns using evidence-based approaches including the Gottman Method and the Developmental Model. My style is direct and collaborative: I help couples understand what's actually driving the pattern and build real skills to change it.

Relationships don't struggle in a vacuum. Attachment wounds, neurodivergent wiring, stress, and unspoken expectations all shape how we show up with the people we love. I work with individuals and couples to untangle what's driving disconnection — whether that's a pattern that's been there since childhood or something that's emerged in the relationship itself — and find a path toward something that actually feels good.

Marriage is a living system — it shifts, gets stuck, and sometimes needs an outside perspective to move again. I work with couples navigating conflict, disconnection, and communication breakdowns using evidence-based approaches including the Gottman Method and the Developmental Model. My style is direct and collaborative: I help couples understand what's actually driving the pattern and build real skills to change it.

Relationships don't struggle in a vacuum. Attachment wounds, neurodivergent wiring, stress, and unspoken expectations all shape how we show up with the people we love. I work with individuals and couples to untangle what's driving disconnection — whether that's a pattern that's been there since childhood or something that's emerged in the relationship itself — and find a path toward something that actually feels good.