Joshua Koch (he/him)

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate
Accepting Clients

Hi, I’m Josh. Struggles don’t define you. Together, we’ll explore what shapes your experiences, what you carry, and what you can change.

Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in Washington
Supervised by Wendy Niaman - LMFT

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Adolescent/Teen
  • Group

About My Clients

I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, life transitions, and the pressure to meet others' expectations. Whether you're struggling with boundaries, communication, people-pleasing, or feeling disconnected from yourself, we'll explore the patterns shaping your experiences. Together, we'll work toward healthier relationships, greater self-awareness, and the ability to stay connected to others without losing yourself.

My Background and Approach

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate with a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from a COAMFTE-accredited program. My approach is grounded in Bowen Family Systems Theory, which explores how family dynamics, relationship patterns, and past experiences influence who we are today. I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, life transitions, boundaries, and identity. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms, I help clients understand the patterns contributing to their struggles and develop the tools to create meaningful change. As a retired Army veteran with 24 years of service, I also bring an understanding of military life, leadership, and major life transitions. My goal is to help you strengthen your sense of self, improve your relationships, and learn to respond to life's challenges with greater confidence and intention.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe meaningful change begins with understanding ourselves, not judging ourselves. As a gay man and retired Army veteran, I bring both personal and professional experience navigating identity, relationships, expectations, and major life transitions. I value authenticity, compassion, personal growth, and the freedom to define who we are rather than who others expect us to be. I'm committed to providing an inclusive, affirming space where people from all backgrounds feel respected and supported. My philosophy is simple: We cannot control everyone or everything around us, but we can learn to understand ourselves, take responsibility for our choices, and build healthier connections without losing our individuality.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Family Therapy Internal Family Systems Narrative Therapy

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Anxiety Relationship Issues Self-Esteem
Other Issues
  • Aging Concerns
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Burnout
  • Career Counseling
  • Child Issues
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Grief or Loss
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Men's Issues
  • Parenting
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sexual Problems
  • Teen Issues

Client Focus

Age
Teens (14–18), Adults, Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals, Couples, Families, Groups

Qualifications

License
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, State of Washington · #MG.70133003
Education
M.A. Marriage and Family Therapy
Supervision
Supervised by Wendy Niaman - LMFT
Years in practice
1 year
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Christianity

Hours & Availability

Monday 12:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Tuesday 12:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Wednesday 12:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Thursday 12:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Friday 12:00 PM – 7:00 PM
SaturdayClosed
SundayClosed
New clients welcome
Currently accepting new clients
Telehealth
Available

At A Glance

  • Experience: 1 year of practice
  • Rate: $150/session

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