Jeff McVay (He/Him)

LMFT #158779 ; MS-Marriage & Family Therapy
Accepting Clients

Hi. I'm Jeff and for 20+ years I have been working with couples to help them move from conflict to connection. Call me for a FREE consult.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Sierra Madre, CA

About My Clients

Another disagreement that spiraled into a fight. Another night lying awake replaying what was said and what was meant. You keep repeating the same conflicts, the same arguments. You try to explain your heart, but it comes out wrong. One of you pushes for closeness while the other pulls away, needing space just to breathe. It’s a pattern you can’t escape, and it’s leaving you exhausted, disconnected, and wondering how something that once felt easy became so hard. You miss being a team. I can help

My Background and Approach

I help couples untangle the patterns that feed these conflict cycles. Using person-centered, attachment-based, and emotionally focused principles, I guide you to understand the emotions beneath your reactions and the cycles you get pulled into together. You'll then learn to turn those destructive patterns into connection. You both will learn to see that your partner is not the problem, your pattern of conflict is.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe that everyone deserves a safe place to be themselves and to be heard. It is my greatest hope that my clients feel comfortable and safe enough to share what is really going on in their lives so that together we may find the best path forward for them. I absolutely love working with couples (especially couples that are feeling trapped in conflict). Together we will seek to map out your particular style of conflict. Once you both can see the pattern, you begin to realize that your partner is not the problem, your pattern of conflict is. Only then can you both begin to create new patterns of healthy communication that will lead to new cycles of connection. If this sounds like you, please call me today for a FREE 15 min consultation call.

I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Christianity
  • Judaism
  • Interfaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 24 years of practice
  • Rate: $200 - 250/session

Info

Email Jeff
55 W. Sierra Madre Blvd. Suite 203
Sierra Madre, CA 91024
55 W. Sierra Madre Blvd. Suite 203
Sierra Madre, CA 91024

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