Services
- Individual
- Couples
- Family
About My Clients
My ideal clients desire for things to be different in their lives even if they don't know exactly where to start. I work with couples going through betrayal, debating divorce, and/or having big issues with cause frequent fights. The first session is really getting to know you and the issues you are facing. You are the expert on you. I do my best therapy with clients who are open and honest. Truth is my largest value.
My Background and Approach
I work mainly with emotionally focused therapy. I help clients understand and look at interactions differently through the lens of vulnerable emotions. If you are struggling with fear, anger, stress, or your spouse has a wall up, we use the language of emotions to improve communication. Think of this like the Toll Way. When you try to talk to your spouse about problems without using the language of emotion, it is driving without a TollTag, but with the language of emotion it is like having a TollTag and the only charge to you is understanding what vulnerable emotion your spouse is feeling. Most people struggle at first, like learning to drive a stick shift, but with me as your guide you will find this method to have a more bearable learning curve if you are willing to get out of your comfort zone and follow some direction in the therapy session. I am collaborating with you to find the path of least resistance to lasting, real change.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I come at therapy personally from a theistic existentialist point of view. I believe in Jesus Christ and it influences how I live my life, improve in my therapy, and treat others. I find when I align myself to God, everything else falls into place. My own personal change I need to make is always with knowing I will stand before God one day and account to Him on how I have treated others.