Irma Ancrum (she/her)

I support couples in improving communication, rebuilding trust, and navigating conflict in a healthy way. Using a collaborative, nonjudgmental approach, I help partners better understand each other’s needs, identify patterns, and strengthen emotional connection. Together, we work toward practical tools and meaningful change to support a more balanced and fulfilling relationship.

I work with all types of relationships (friendships, siblings, and parent/child connections) to foster healthier, more supportive dynamics. In a safe, nonjudgmental space, we explore communication styles, boundaries, and unmet needs. Together, we identify patterns, improve understanding, and build skills to navigate conflict and strengthen connection in a way that feels balanced and meaningful.

I support families, including blended families, in working through conflict with care and understanding. I create a space where each person feels heard and respected while we explore patterns, roles, and communication challenges. Together, we build healthier ways to navigate differences, strengthen connection, and develop practical tools that support a more balanced, supportive family dynamic.

I believe solution-focused therapy works best when clients present with clear goals, motivation for change, or a desire to move forward from feeling stuck. In these moments, I focus on strengths, past successes, and small, achievable steps. Together, we highlight what’s working, build confidence, and create practical strategies that support meaningful, forward movement in daily life.

Narrative therapy works well when clients want to better understand their story and how it shapes their experiences. Together, we explore the meanings behind those stories, separate problems from identity, and identify strengths that may feel overlooked. This approach helps clients reframe their experiences and create more empowering, preferred narratives that support growth and change.

In couples counseling, I draw from a blend of modalities and approaches based on each couple’s unique needs. I tailor the work to support where you’re feeling stuck—whether that’s communication, trust, or connection—using a range of tools and strategies. My goal is to meet you where you are and provide practical, meaningful support that helps strengthen and move your relationship forward.