Erin Fox (she/her)

MA, MMT, MT-BC, LPCC
Accepting Clients

Relationship therapy for couples, LGBTQ+ partnerships, polyamorous structures, and individuals. Grief work. EFT trained. 20+ yrs experience.

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Oakdale, MN

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

My clients are often navigating painful relationship experiences, like ongoing conflict, infidelity, separation, or grief that does not ease. Some are couples trying to reconnect. Others are individuals trying to understand why the same patterns keep repeating. Many are in LGBTQ+ or non-traditional relationships and want a therapist who truly understands their world. They are ready to look at what is really happening and make meaningful change.

My Background and Approach

I spent over two decades as a music therapist in hospice settings, sitting with people at the end of life and with families carrying that loss. That experience shapes how I work. I am comfortable with difficult emotions, complex conversations, and moments that feel overwhelming, and I do not rush people through them. For couples, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy to help you move beyond surface arguments and understand the deeper emotional patterns underneath, so real change can happen. Most couples are not fighting about what they think they are. This work helps you see what is actually happening and shift it. I am a licensed psychotherapist, board-certified music therapist, and Fellow of the Association for Music and Imagery. I bring creative and expressive tools when they are useful. They are always optional and always guided by your goals. I also work with teens, and as a parent of teenagers, I bring real-life understanding to that work.

Why I Became a Therapist

I believe in the power of real human connection. Therapy is a space where we slow down, make sense of what is happening, and begin to see things more clearly. Sometimes that includes curiosity, sometimes humor, and sometimes sitting with what is hard without trying to rush past it. When people feel truly understood, something shifts. That shift does not stay in the therapy room. It carries into relationships, work, and how you move through the world. My goal is to create a space where you feel understood and supported, and where that understanding leads to meaningful change.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Experiential Therapy Trauma Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Attachment Theory
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Couples Counseling
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Existential Therapy
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Trauma Therapy
  • Music Therapy
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Grief or Loss Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Relationship Issues
Other Issues
  • Aging Concerns
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Grief or Loss
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Parenting
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Teen Issues
  • Women's Issues
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Out of Network
  • Aetna
  • Cigna
  • ComPsych
  • Medicaid
  • Optum
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
  • United Healthcare
  • UMR
  • Anthem Blue Cross/Blue Shield
  • Champus Tricare
  • Medica Health Plans
  • Health Partners
  • Preferred One
  • Healthpartners
  • BlueCross of Minnesota Medicaid
  • Minnesota Medical Assistance
  • UCare
  • Evernorth
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 22 years of practice
  • Languages: English

Info

Email Erin
7250 Hudson Blvd. N.
Suite 205
Oakdale, MN 55128

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