Services
- Individual
About My Clients
I work with adults who may be juggling life, stagnant sex lives, and trying to find joy again. No matter if your issues show up in the bedroom, with your partner(s), or just flying solo. We can talk honestly about things like low desire, mismatched interest with a partner, erection or orgasm issues, and feeling 'broken' around sex. My goal is to help you have a sexual life that actually feels safe, doable, and maybe even fun again.
My Background and Approach
My style is direct, supportive, and deeply nonjudgemental. We'll talk about the stuff you usually feel like you have to hide with plenty of compassion, a smidgeon of dark humor, perhaps a sprinkle of swearing, and zero diet culture or 'fix your trauma to be worthy' vibes. I'm pretty structured when it helps (CBT, behavior experiments, and concrete plans around sex, porn, meds, sleep, and nervous-system overwhelm) and flexible when it doesn't. Between sessions I'll give you small, concrete tools and experiments so you're not just 'processing' forever with no changes. We'll look at how your brain and body actually works, not how it's 'supposed' to work, and build strategies around that, with you as the expert on your own life. We'll talk about sex like it's a normal part of life, not a shameful secret.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I'm a queer, genderqueer, and neurodivergent therapist who cares a lot about helping people build lives that actually feel livable, not perfect. Outside of work I'm usually hanging out with my two cats, hunting for loud thrifted shirts, or nerding out with fanfiction. Btw, I absolutely want to meet your pets. I'm sex-positive, kink-affirming, and I believe you deserve care no matter how you walk through this life.