Emily Hurlin (she/her)

LCSW
Accepting Clients

I'm Emily Hurlin, LISW, a PACT-trained couples therapist guiding partners toward deeper trust, intimacy, and lasting connection.

Licensed Clinical Social Worker in ,

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Services
  • Individual
  • Couples

About My Clients

My ideal clients are couples ready to do the work necessary for achieving their goals — whether it’s the shift needed for partners facing gridlocked conflict, healing from betrayal, or building connection after a slow drift apart. I also work with premarital couples and blended families navigating new dynamics. I see clients online across Iowa, Illinois, and Tennessee. If that's you, I'd love to help.

My Background and Approach

I'm a Licensed Independent Social Worker with eight years in practice, trained directly by Dr. Stan Tatkin in the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) — one of a small number of PACT-trained clinicians licensed to see clients in Iowa, Illinois, and Tennessee. PACT is an embodied, science-based model: instead of just talking about problems, we track what's happening moment-to-moment in your bodies, faces, and voices during sessions, so new patterns get stored where they actually stick. Sessions can run longer than typical therapy, which lets us do in one sitting what can take months elsewhere. I see clients online throughout Iowa, Illinois, and Tennessee, online, offering the same depth of work as in-person therapy from wherever you're located in Iowa, Illinois, or Tennessee.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe healing happens in the body as much as the mind, which is why I train in embodied, attachment-based approaches rather than talk-only methods. Having been raised in an LGBTQ+ household, I bring a lived understanding of chosen family, non-traditional relationship structures, and the importance of affirming, judgment-free care — values that shape how I show up for every couple I work with. I also care deeply about expanding access to quality mental health care, which is part of why I offer online therapy — it removes the barrier of location for couples who might not otherwise have access to this kind of specialized care. Outside the therapy room, my family and I steward two critically endangered heritage livestock breeds on our farm.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Attachment Theory
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy
  • Couples Counseling
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Family Systems
  • Family Therapy
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy
  • Holistic Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Nonviolent Communication
  • Relational Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Wilderness Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Animal Assisted Therapy (AAT)
  • Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT)
  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Divorce Family Conflict Marriage Counseling

Client Focus

Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals, Couples
Languages
English

Qualifications

License
LCSW, State of Iowa · #092607
Education
Masters in Social Work, 2018, University of Iowa
Additional credentials
EMDR Certified 2019
PACT Level 2 2024
Somatic Experiencing Level 2 2025
Supervision
Provides supervision to apprentice therapists · currently accepting supervisees
Years in practice
8 years
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
I offer online counseling in the following states:

Hours & Availability

Monday 6:45 AM – 6:45 PM
Tuesday 6:45 AM – 6:45 PM
Wednesday 6:45 AM – 6:45 PM
Thursday 6:45 AM – 6:45 PM
Friday 6:45 AM – 3:00 PM
SaturdayClosed
Sunday 8:00 AM – 6:00 PM
New clients welcome
Currently accepting new clients
Telehealth
Available

At A Glance

  • Experience: 8 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $185 - 225/session

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