Elliott Haley (they/them)

MA, AMFT, APCC
Accepting Clients

Providing relationship and family therapy for polyamorous and LGBTQIA+ folks.

Addictions Counselor in California
Supervised by Mónica de la Cruz López Leal, LMFT #124970

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Child
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

I am passionate about helping LGBTQ and polyamorous people reconnect in relationships. I also specialize with helping folks who struggle with trauma and unhelpful coping skills that they would like to change - especially substance use, self-harm, and disordered eating. I provide letters of recommendation for folks seeking gender affirming healthcare.

My Background and Approach

I received my Masters degree specializing in LGBTQIA+ studies, and I understand the importance of finding a therapist who has both a professional and personal understanding of navigating mental health and relationships as an LGBTQ+ person. I trained in EMDR through the Institute of Creative Mindfulness and Attachment-Based Family Therapy through Drexel University. Prior to becoming a therapist, I was a substance use counselor working with LGBTQIA+ teens/parents in residential, PHP, IOP, and outpatient. I am a certified SMART Recovery Facilitator and Seeking Safety trained with over 3,000 hours of supervised substance use counseling experience.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I approach therapy first as a fellow human. As a queer, transmasculine, and polyamorous individual, my goal is to facilitate genuine interactions that assist LGBTQIA+ clients with discovering their innate wisdom, resilience, and authenticity.Working with me is a collaborative process to repair relationship ruptures, discover more helpful coping skills, and process underlying needs and hurts. I am grounded in a Liberation Psychology approach, which intertwines awareness of systems of oppression, culture, and social justice with therapy in a way that assists LGBTQIA+ folks to rewrite their personal narrative, heal relationships, and work toward social equity on a larger scale. All my approaches are person-centered, trauma-informed, and compassionate.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Attachment Theory Existential Therapy Relationship Counseling
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Addiction Counseling
  • Attachment Theory
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Couples Counseling
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Family Therapy
  • Harm Reduction Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Addiction Polyamorous and Open Relationships Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Other Issues
  • Aging Concerns
  • Attachment
  • Codependency
  • Eating Disorders
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • Self-Harm
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 3 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $200 - 250/session

Reach out to Elliott