Dr. Mary Spease

My clinical focus includes relational concerns, codependency, betrayal trauma, adult children or partners of addicts/alcoholics, and addiction & recovery. I use therapy that integrates differentiation-based/attachment theories, EMDR, faith-based approaches, and 12-step philosophies. I understand varying levels of clinical care and the array of needs unique to each client as I have experience with school-based settings, outpatient facilities, partial hospitalization programs, and residential treatment centers. Prior to relocating to San Diego, I maintained a private practice in Santa Monica and Beverly Hills and for a period of time, served as a primary therapist and Program Director of a residential program. While being in San Diego, I have worked with notable group practices and was the Clinical Director of an Addiction/Sober Living program. Currently, my time is fully dedicated to my private practice in San Diego, where I am passionate about my work.

I believe therapy can be an invigorating, challenging, & illuminating experience in which you have the chance to learn more about yourself / your approach and perspective on life. It's a gift to allow yourself the space to recognize the truths about who you are while breaking free from negative behavior, destructive relationships, unhealthy coping, and/or distorted internal messages. I view clients through a lens of strength, where there is always hope & the opportunity for transformation. Common life dilemmas or heartbreaking experiences can help foster a stronger capacity for personal understanding & growth as well as develop greater wisdom within your relationships. My goal is to create a safe place where you can enhance self-awareness and your ability to listen to and honor your intuition, build upon individual strengths, and create authentic connections. You are worth experiencing healthier, more fulfilling ways of life and finding joy in deeper & more intimate relationships.