Darlene Meza (They/Them)

AMFT, APCC
Accepting Clients

Queer-affirming therapist (they/them), MA, AMFT, APCC. Supports individuals & couples in English & Spanish to heal, grow, and thrive.

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in California
Supervised by J’Quaysha Tucker

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Child
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, depression, identity, relationship challenges, and life transitions. I provide a queer-affirming, inclusive space and offer therapy in English and Spanish. I especially support clients healing from trauma, managing stress, building self-esteem, and recovering from challenging relationships. My ideal clients are ready to explore, grow, and create meaningful change in a safe, supportive environment

My Background and Approach

Hi, I’m Darlene Meza (they/them), and I provide therapy in both English and Spanish. I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, identity, and life transitions. My approach is warm, compassionate, and tailored to your unique experiences, blending practical tools with active listening and support. I offer a queer-affirming, inclusive space where you can feel safe to explore your feelings, build coping skills, strengthen relationships, and make meaningful changes. My goal is to help you feel understood, empowered, and confident as you work toward the life and relationships you want.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I am a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community and a nonbinary therapist. I am also a military spouse and deeply support military families, understanding the unique challenges, transitions, and stigma they may face. I believe that everyone is valid and deserves access to basic necessities, safety, and the freedom to express themselves authentically without fear. I am a strong advocate for life-saving care and rights for transgender individuals and children, and I stand for equity, inclusion, and dignity for all people, including undocumented communities.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Narrative Therapy Relationship Counseling Trauma Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Attachment Theory
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy
  • Couples Counseling
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • EcoTherapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy
  • Holistic Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Person-Centered (Rogerian)
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists Polyamorous and Open Relationships Veterans/Military Service
Other Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Child Issues
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence or Intimate Partner Violence
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse or Assault
  • Sexual Problems
  • Spirituality
  • Systemic Oppression Therapy
  • Teen Issues
  • Veterans/Military Service
  • Women's Issues
Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Aetna
  • Cigna
  • Sharp
  • Humana
  • Magellan Behavioral Health
  • MHN
  • TRICARE
  • Blue Shield of California
  • Anthem Blue Cross Medical
  • Carelon Behavioral Health Plan
  • UnitedHealthcare (Optum)
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Agnosticism
  • Atheism
  • The Satanic Temple
  • Wicca/Paganism
  • Interfaith
  • Multifaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 2 years of practice
  • Languages: English, Español
  • Rate: $95 - 120/session

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