Chloe Lawler AMFT

My work supports clients in processing the emotional impact of divorce, untangling patterns from the relationship, and reconnecting with a sense of self that may feel lost or fragmented. I help clients work through high-conflict dynamics, co-parenting challenges, identity shifts, and the complex emotions that arise when a relationship ends, even when the decision feels necessary or healthy.

In therapy, we gently explore the emotional and relational roots of codependency while building greater self-awareness, self-trust, and emotional regulation. I help clients learn how to identify their needs, tolerate guilt or discomfort when setting boundaries, and shift from external validation toward a more secure and grounded sense of self.

I specialize in working with individuals and relationships within consensual non-monogamy, including polyamorous and open relationship structures. Clients often come to therapy navigating complex emotions such as jealousy, insecurity, attachment wounds, communication challenges, or differing needs and agreements within their relational systems. My approach is affirming, non-judgmental, and grounded in an understanding that there is no one “right” way to do relationships.

By integrating somatic work with attachment-based, emotion-focused, and parts-oriented therapy, I support clients in rebuilding a sense of safety, embodiment, and trust in their own signals. Over time, this can lead to reduced reactivity, deeper emotional integration, and a more felt sense of stability and connection.

In therapy, we slow down reactive cycles and explore the deeper emotions and attachment needs underneath them. Rather than focusing on blame or problem-solving alone, EFT helps clients access and express emotions in ways that foster safety, empathy, and connection. This approach supports meaningful repair, clearer communication, and increased emotional responsiveness within relationships.

I incorporate Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) to help clients heal through emotional safety, secure connection, and experiential processing. AEDP is a trauma-informed, attachment-based approach that emphasizes the healing power of being deeply seen, understood, and supported while working through difficult emotional experiences.

I incorporate Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) to help clients heal through emotional safety, secure connection, and experiential processing. AEDP is a trauma-informed, attachment-based approach that emphasizes the healing power of being deeply seen, understood, and supported while working through difficult emotional experiences.