Cat Haueter (she/her, they/them)

MA LMFT
Accepting Clients

I’m a queer Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over a decade of experience helping people heal, grow, and reconnect.

Sex Therapist in Oakland, CA

About My Clients

I love working with LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, and families. I'm a gender health specialist and love affirming folks exploring gender identity. I also love supporting young adults through big life transitions—starting college, living away from home, launching careers—and helping older adults navigate changing relationships and intimacy later in life. Wherever you are on your path, I offer a space to slow down, get curious, and move toward the kind of love and self-acceptance you deserve.

My Background and Approach

My approach is sex-positive, trauma-informed, and deeply relational. I have advanced training in sex therapy and am in the process of becoming an AASECT certified sex therapist. I use a combination of experiential, somatic, and attachment oriented approaches to involve both mind and body in the therapy process. For relationship therapy, I use a combination of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and Gottman method. I also utilize Brainspotting for trauma work.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe therapy works best when it meets you where you are, without judgment or pressure to be anyone other than yourself. Together, we’ll explore what’s getting in the way of connection, pleasure, and authenticity—and help you build a life that feels aligned and alive.

I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 12 years of practice
  • Rate: $225/session

Info

Email Cat
Rose Garden Neighborhood
Oakland, CA 94610

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