Cassandra Massey (she/her)

Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT #164709)
Accepting Clients

Relational, neuro-affirming therapy for individuals, couples, and families navigating ADHD, autism, conflict, and disconnection.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CA

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Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Group

About My Clients

I work with individuals, couples, and families who feel stuck in repeating patterns — conflict, shutdown, overwhelm, disconnection, parenting stress, or feeling misunderstood. Many clients are navigating ADHD, autism, AuDHD, suspected neurodivergence, sensory needs, executive-function challenges, or emotional intensity. You may be looking for therapy because you want more clarity, less blame, and more workable ways to regulate, communicate, repair, parent, and reconnect.

My Background and Approach

I specialize in relational, neuro-affirming therapy for individuals, couples, and families. My work draws on advanced training in the Gottman Method, Attachment Theory, Internal Family Systems, Relational Life Therapy, Discernment Counseling, Interpersonal Neurobiology, and neuraffirming approaches. This means our work will not just be about talking through problems. We will look at the patterns underneath them, slow down reactivity, build accountability and repair, and create practical ways to support communication, regulation, parenting, boundaries, and connection.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe therapy should be a place where people feel understood, not judged or pathologized. I care about neurodiversity-affirming and culturally responsive care, especially for people who are diagnosed, self-identified, or wondering whether ADHD, autism, AuDHD, or sensory differences may be part of their story. I also support parents trying to understand their child with less shame and more compassion. My work is grounded in curiosity, nervous-system awareness, practical support, and more connected ways of living together.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Family Systems Integrative Therapy Relational Therapy
Other Techniques
  • Attachment Theory
  • Coaching
  • Couples Counseling
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Family Systems
  • Family Therapy
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Discernment Counseling
  • Trauma Therapy
  • Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB)
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
ADHD Therapists Autism Spectrum Disorder Relationship Issues
Other Issues
  • ADHD Therapists
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • Burnout
  • Child Issues
  • Family Conflict
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Parenting
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Teen Issues
  • Women's Issues

Client Focus

Languages
English

Qualifications

License
Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT #164709), State of California · #164709
Years in practice
4 years
I offer online counseling in the following states:

Hours & Availability

New clients welcome
Currently accepting new clients
Telehealth
Available

At A Glance

  • Experience: 4 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $150 - 250/session

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