Brian Hayes

Limited Licensed Psychologist
Accepting Clients

Men who stay functional but feel misaligned underneath—carrying pressure, compulsive patterns, irritability, or guardedness they don’t show.

Psychotherapist in Ann Arbor, MI

Services

About My Clients

I work with men who manage life well on the surface but feel off internally—reactive, compulsive, shut down, or stretched thin. Many describe carrying pressure they don’t talk about, repeating patterns they don’t fully understand, or feeling misaligned in relationships. I help men who wrestle with compulsive behaviors, problematic pornography use, anger, burnout, impulsivity, infidelity, and stress.

My Background and Approach

I’m a depth‑oriented psychotherapist specializing in men’s internal conflicts—compulsive loops, irritability, guardedness, and emotional shutdown. My work focuses on what’s happening underneath: the pressures you carry, the patterns you repeat, and the emotions that show up indirectly. I draw from psychodynamic and relational approaches, helping men understand the internal forces shaping their reactions, choices, and relationships. The work is steady, direct, and grounded. You can speak plainly here, and we move at a pace that fits you. My goal is to help you develop clarity, emotional steadiness, and a more aligned way of living.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe men benefit from a space where they don’t have to perform, minimize, or translate what they’re feeling. I value directness, emotional honesty, and the kind of depth that helps men understand themselves rather than just manage symptoms. I support work that strengthens relational integrity, personal responsibility, and internal alignment. Outside the office, I’m drawn to writing, strategic thinking, and conversations that get beneath the surface. I care about creating spaces where men can speak plainly, explore what’s actually happening inside, and build lives that feel congruent.

Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
  • Blue Care Network
  • Priority Health
I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 16 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $165/session

Info

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2307 Shelby Ave.
Ann Arbor, MI 48103

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