Ashleigh Hage

Brainspotting is a brain-body approach that works where talk therapy can't always reach — processing trauma, dysregulation, and stuck patterns through the nervous system rather than just the thinking mind. For neurodivergent clients especially, it offers a gentler, more effective path through what traditional therapy often misses. I use Brainspotting as a core modality for trauma, intimacy blocks, and the deep nervous system work that underlies so much of what brings people to therapy.

Sex therapy deserves a therapist who won't flinch. I have specialized training in sex-positive, shame-free care for individuals and couples navigating sexual concerns, intimacy struggles, desire discrepancy, and identity. I'm kink-aware and affirming of all orientations and relationship structures. Currently pursuing certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, I believe your sexuality deserves the same care as every other part of your life.

Relationships come to therapy when the same wall keeps appearing — disconnection, intimacy struggles, or the weight of navigating a relationship when one or both partners are neurodivergent. I draw on Gottman, attachment-based, and Family Systems approaches, tailoring each session to the specific dynamic in the room. I work with all relationship structures — married, unmarried, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and LGBTQ+ — without judgment or a one-size-fits-all script.

Brainspotting works where talk therapy can't always reach — processing trauma, dysregulation, and stuck patterns through the nervous system rather than the thinking mind. For neurodivergent clients especially, it offers a gentler, more effective path through what traditional therapy often misses. I use Brainspotting as a core modality for trauma, intimacy blocks, and the deep nervous system work underlying so much of what brings people to therapy.

Sex therapy deserves a therapist who won't flinch. I have specialized training in sex-positive, shame-free care for individuals and couples navigating sexual concerns, intimacy struggles, desire discrepancy, and identity. I'm kink-aware and affirming of all orientations and relationship structures. Currently pursuing certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, I believe your sexuality deserves the same care as every other part of your life.

Relationships are hard — and they're worth fighting for. Whether you're navigating disconnection, intimacy struggles, communication breakdowns, or the unique dynamics that come with neurodivergent partnerships, I'm here to help you find your way back to each other. Drawing on Gottman, attachment-based, and Family Systems approaches, I work with all relationship structures — married, unmarried, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and LGBTQ+ — with warmth, honesty, and zero judgment.

Living with chronic pain or illness affects every part of life — relationships, identity, intimacy, and sense of self. As someone who understands the intersection of nervous system dysregulation and chronic conditions, I use Brainspotting and somatic-informed approaches to help clients process the emotional weight of their diagnosis, reduce stress responses that amplify symptoms, and rebuild a relationship with their body that feels livable.

Relationship struggles rarely exist in isolation — they're tangled up with identity, intimacy, nervous system patterns, and often neurodivergence. I work with individuals and all relationship structures navigating disconnection, communication breakdown, desire discrepancy, and intimacy concerns. My approach is warm, direct, and shame-free, drawing on Gottman, attachment-based, and Family Systems frameworks tailored to your specific dynamic.

ADHD affects far more than focus — it shapes relationships, intimacy, emotional regulation, and identity in ways traditional therapy often misses. I bring specialized training in neurodivergent-affirming care alongside lived experience, using Brainspotting and tailored approaches to help ADHD adults understand their patterns, improve their relationships, and build a life that actually fits their brain.

Relationships come to therapy when the same wall keeps appearing: disconnection, intimacy struggles, communication breakdown, or the dynamics of partnerships where one or both partners are neurodivergent. I draw on Gottman, attachment-based, and Family Systems approaches, tailoring each session to the dynamic in the room. I work with all relationship structures, married, unmarried, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and LGBTQ+ with warmth, honesty, and no script.

Brainspotting works where talk therapy can't always reach — processing trauma, dysregulation, and stuck patterns through the nervous system rather than just the thinking mind. For neurodivergent clients especially, it offers a gentler path through what traditional therapy often misses. I use it as a core modality for trauma, intimacy blocks, and anxiety that lives in the body. You don't have to retell your whole story. We find the spot together, and your brain does the work.

Sex therapy deserves a therapist who won't flinch. I have specialized training in sex-positive, shame-free care for individuals and couples navigating sexual concerns, intimacy struggles, desire discrepancy, and identity. I'm kink-aware and affirming of all orientations and relationship structures. Currently pursuing certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, I believe your sexuality deserves the same care as every other part of your life.

Relationship struggles rarely exist in isolation — they're tangled up with identity, intimacy, nervous-system patterns, and often neurodivergence. I work with individuals and couples navigating disconnection, communication breakdown, desire mismatch, and intimacy concerns. My approach is warm, direct, and shame-free, drawing on Gottman, attachment-based, and Family Systems frameworks tailored to your specific dynamic. I work with all relationship structures and welcome the conversations.

Chronic pain and illness reshape every part of life, and the parts no one talks about (intimacy, identity, the body you used to know) often get the least amount of attention. I work with the emotional and relational weight of chronic conditions using Brainspotting and somatic-informed approaches to address the nervous system patterns that pain and illness build over time. This is especially useful when chronic conditions are affecting your sex life, your relationships, or your sense of self.

ADHD shapes far more than focus. It shapes relationships, intimacy, emotional regulation, and identity in ways traditional therapy often misses. The reorganization that comes after a late diagnosis is its own kind of work, and it rarely gets named. I bring specialized training in neurodivergent-affirming care alongside lived experience. We work on what ADHD is actually doing in your life, in your relationships, your sense of self, your sex life, your nervous system.