Angie Schilaty (She/her)

Grief is an uninvited guest arriving from an event you never wanted or anticipated. When life shifts in ways you didn't choose, it’s tempting to dress it up or pretend it isn’t there. But ignoring that presence only makes the weight heavier. You don’t have to "fix" your sorrow; you need it to be witnessed and honored. I provide a steady space to acknowledge what was lost and give your grief the room it needs to breathe.

It feels like someone pulled the fire alarm inside your head and now everything is moving too fast. You are physically present but your mind is miles ahead bracing for a future that keeps you disconnected from the now. That constant tightness and the feeling that you are sprinting toward an inevitable crash is your nervous system trying to keep you safe but it is exhausting. I offer a steady space to help you silence the alarm and finally let your body catch its breath.

Life-altering events can shift how you see yourself and connect with others. If you're living with trauma, your world might feel like a storm of shame, self-blame, or exhausting replays. Whether you’re running 100mph to outpace memories or your body is shutting down in bone-tired protection, I want you to know: Your body isn't failing; it's trying to save you. We’ll work with your system’s inherent wisdom to quiet the noise, reclaim your agency, and rebuild a deep, confident trust in yourself.

We are hardwired to belong, but when safety feels threatened, your body moves into protection mode. This can create painful confusion: craving closeness while pushing it away, or fearing abandonment so intensely that your reactions strain the connection. Together, we will map out these survival responses to see if they still serve you. We will create new strategies to help you meet your needs, discern safe relationships, and finally find your footing again.

We all want to build a life that feels meaningful, but it’s hard to move forward when you aren't sure what your values or goals even are. We will get specific, exploring what truly matters to you away from the noise of expectations. When those values feel threatened or lost, we will learn to slow down and pause. Together, we’ll readjust your actions to ensure they actually support the life you want to build for yourself. It’s about moving toward a version of you that feels authentic.