AJ Sadler (they/them)

Accepting Clients

Queer, neurodivergent therapist supporting healing from trauma, identity exploration, and recovery through warmth and collaboration.

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in California
Supervised by Dr. Tracy Smith, Licensed Psychologist

Services
  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Adolescent/Teen

About My Clients

I work with adults, teens, and people in relationships navigating trauma, identity, neurodivergence, substance use recovery, and a spectrum of mental health experiences. My clients seek a space where all parts of themselves are welcome — including the messy, complex, tough, and tender. Together, we build connection, clarity, and tools for resilience, honoring each person’s lived experience, cultural context, and unique path toward healing.

My Background and Approach

I’m a white, queer, neurodivergent therapist who approaches healing as both a personal and collective process. I draw from somatic, psychodynamic, mindfulness-based, and parts work approaches, integrating creativity and intuition to meet your unique needs. I have extensive experience working with cis men and masc-identifying clients, creating space to explore identity, emotional expression, relationships, and the impact of cultural expectations. My background includes work in residential, outpatient, and community mental health with adults, teens, families, veterans, and LGBTQIA+ clients. My work is rooted in trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and anti-oppressive care, honoring the impact of systemic and generational harm alongside individual experiences. I value collaboration, mutual accountability, and honoring your pace. Together, we’ll explore what’s been holding you back, cultivate tools for resilience, and nurture the growth, connection, and liberation you’re seeking.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I don’t believe in ‘blank slate’ therapy — I show up as a real person, bringing warmth, curiosity, my humanity, identity, and self-awareness into the room. I believe therapy is a collaborative space for healing, growth, and self-discovery, where you can explore all parts of yourself without judgment. My work recognizes that personal challenges exist within larger systems, and healing means tending both the inner and outer landscapes of our lives. I center your lived experience, cultural context, and strengths, while making space for curiosity, humor, and self-compassion. I trust that transformation is possible for everyone, and that the therapeutic relationship can be a powerful container for change. I see therapy as a place to reclaim your story, reconnect with your body, and explore new ways of being. Connection — to self, others, and the world — is both a human need and a source of resilience.

Techniques I Use

Specialties
Attachment Theory Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Healing for Emotional Trauma
Other Techniques
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Addiction Counseling
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy
  • Culturally Sensitive Therapy
  • Depth Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Existential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Harm Reduction Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Integral Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Transpersonal Therapy
  • Integrative Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Trauma Therapy
  • Relationship Counseling

Issues I Treat

Specialties
Addiction ADHD Therapists Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Other Issues
  • Abuse
  • Adoption Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder
  • Body Image Issues
  • Burnout
  • Career Counseling
  • Chronic Pain or Illness
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence or Intimate Partner Violence
  • Family Conflict
  • Gender Identity Therapy
  • Historical/ Intergenerational Trauma
  • LGBTQ-Friendly Therapists
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Men's Issues
  • Parenting
  • Physical Disability
  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Suicidal Thoughts
  • Systemic Oppression Therapy
  • Teen Issues
  • Veterans/Military Service
  • Women's Issues
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Buddhism
  • Christianity
  • Jainism
  • Sikhism
  • Interfaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 2 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $120 - 140/session

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