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About My Clients
My ideal client is someone who's been knocked sideways by infidelity and is ready to stop suffering. You might be the hurt partner who can't stop obsessing over details, checking phones, or replaying what happened. The couple who wants to repair but keeps getting stuck in the same painful arguments. The unfaithful partner who wants to make things right but doesn't know how. The individual who needs space to process betrayal before making any big decisions.
My Background and Approach
I've been doing this work for 20 years, and my path to couples therapy wasn't exactly traditional. I started my career as a drug counselor in the trenches of heroin addiction, which taught me early on that real change requires more than just nodding along. It requires showing up authentically, telling the truth, and meeting people where they are without judgment. I have a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy, and my primary modality is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT),one of the most researched and effective approaches for helping couples heal from infidelity and rebuild secure attachment. EFT helps us get underneath the surface arguments to the deeper emotional patterns driving disconnection. But here's what two decades of experience has taught me: the therapeutic relationship matters just as much as the model. You need someone who's going to actively engage with you, challenge you when you're stuck, and bring humor and humanity into the room, not just theory and technique.