Domestic, or intimate partner violence, can take many forms. It is often violence used in an effort to gain and/or maintain control. Some of the more common types of domestic violence include physical abuse (hitting, pushing, hair-pulling, forced substance use), emotional abuse (insults, blame, or other methods to diminish a person's self-esteem), psychological abuse (threats, including against family, pets, friends, or the abuser themselves, stopping a partner from attending activities, or other manipulation), sexual abuse (coerced or demeaning sex acts), and financial abuse (controlling a partner's finances or restriction of financial resources like an allowance). The emotional effects of these types of abuse can be long lasting, and may cause depression, post-traumatic stress (PTSD), insomnia, emotional distance, and more. If you or someone you know is experiencing (or has experienced) abuse, a qualified therapist can help. It is also important for children who witness or experience domestic abuse to see a professional who specializes in the age group to prevent the trauma affecting adulthood and possibly perpetuating the cycle of abuse. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s abuse specialists for support today.
I have worked on both side of domestic violence and intimate partner violence. I have provided victim centered treatment in the forensic space, as well as trauma therapy for survivors in the private space. Domestic violence is not limited to behaviors deemed illegal by the criminal justice system, but also includes emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse.
— Suzanne Cooper, Addictions Counselor in Englewood, CO, COI began my career working as a Victim Advocate in the court system for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and trafficking. I offered support throughout the court process and I understand how profoundly domestic violence affects our lives. I worked for years as a case manager in confidential shelters before working as a therapist. I am passionate about this work.
— Sara Fischer Sanford, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in SAN FRANCISCO, CAResearch shows that both men and women can be victims of domestic violence or family violence, and both can be perpetrators as well. I have developed and published a domestic violence documentation format which also serves as an interview guide to thoroughly identify all forms of domestic or family violence. I perform domestic violence evaluations in immigration cases, and I also prepare extreme hardship evaluations in immigration cases.
— Stephen Finstein, Therapist in Dallas, TXThere is much shame and guilt associated with domestic violence. I work with survivors of domestic violence, to help them through the healing process to reidentify who they were before the relationship, identify boundaries with others, rebuild self esteem, and confidence in self. I use person centered care, as each person's journey is unique and we will address the last effects of domestic violence including the lasting emotional and psychological effects after leaving an abusive partner.
— Lisa Moscato, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in ,Getting hurt by someone you’ve cared for is especially painful. While the physical traumas can be scary as hell, the emotional traumas can take a lot more work to heal. When I work with domestic violence survivors certain themes come up over and over again. Survivors often wonder if something’s wrong with them, why this person hurt them and why they might still care for them. These are complex questions worthy of exploration. Through a multi-modal approach that infuses relational, experiential and body-oriented approaches I help clients overcome trauma, create healthy boundaries, increase resilience, reclaim their sense of self and create the lives they wish to lead.
— Natalia Amari, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Austin, TXSurvivors of domestic violence or intimate partner violence often suffer with PTSD and anxiety symptoms. Utilizing a combination of EMDR therapy, parts work and psychotherapy I treat the individual and walk their healing journey along with them.
— Lynn Harris, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Campbell, CAI have been supporting the survivors of violent acts since I was an undergrad in college. Since 2007 I have been an advocate for those who most often feel voiceless. It is so important to provide a safe place for survivors to share their story, find safety and work to rebuild their life. I use a variety of tools to help you combat trauma and increase safety.
— Alison Murphey, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CAI am an IPV/DV survivor. I went to support groups at a DV advocacy agency, and I loved the experience so much, that a few years later, I returned to the agency to run the groups as a volunteer. This inspired me to become a therapist, and now I counsel IPV/DV survivors and run counseling support groups. I help people understand what happened, and empower people to find their self-esteem to move forward. I wrote an educational memoir about my experience that is available on my website.
— Kate Mageau, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Seattle, WADomestic violence is also known as intimate partner violence, spousal abuse, and domestic abuse. Staying in an abusive situation can have negative long-term effects. But recovery is possible. Being Clinically Certified Therapist in Domestic Abuse, I work with woman in understanding the types & cycles of abuse, creating a safety plan, and how to stay safe. I also work with children. 1 in 3 women are impacted by domestic violence in their lifetime. If you need help right away, please call 911.
— Tammie Holt, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Maitland, FLWorking with clients that have experienced IPV will be approached with a trauma focused therapy.
— Patricia Viscaino, Licensed Professional CounselorDV/IPV can affect anyone--regardless of sexuality, gender, age, religion, ability, nationality, neurodivergence. I validate clients' experiences, educate on dynamics of abuse within relationships, and work with you to remain safe, whether that means while in the relationship or not.
— Jennifer Kulka, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in , CAI have extensive experience working with survivors of domestic violence.
— Sarah McCune, Licensed Professional Counselor in Denver, COI began my work at Peace Over Violence, a non profit organization that offered free services including therapy, crisis intervention, legal services, and more to survivors of domestic and sexual abuse. My training there educated me on the legal aspects of both, and how to best emotionally support populations who are hoping to escape, have escaped, or have long been out of abusive dynamics.
— Hannah Schollhammer, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CAI have used Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy successfully in working with victims of domestic violence.
— Sandra Nunez, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CAGetting hurt by someone you’ve cared for is especially painful. While the physical traumas can be scary as hell, the emotional traumas can take a lot more work to heal. When I work with domestic violence survivors certain themes come up over and over again. Survivors often wonder if something’s wrong with them, why this person hurt them and why they might still care for them. These are complex questions worthy of exploration. Through a multi-modal approach that infuses relational, experiential and body-oriented approaches I help clients overcome trauma, create healthy boundaries, increase resilience, reclaim their sense of self and create the lives they wish to lead.
— Natalia Amari, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Austin, TXMany survivors find that, as time goes on, the impacts of specific traumatic events begin to affect them differently. As challenging as it may feel to share your story, it is so important to find a safe place to process and cope with trauma and abuse you have survived. I am able to provide a safe place for all survivors to process, share and navigate their story. Together we will work on rebuilding your sense of self and increasing your quality of life.
— Alison Murphey, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CAI have been the Domestic Violence counselor for the local Women's Shelter for over five years. My approach is from a trauma informed, person-centered, cognitive-behavioral foundation.
— Delzora M. Clark - VoicedMania, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in New Bern, NCDomestic violence is often misunderstood as strictly physical violence against one's partner. But it is much more complicated than that. Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, financial abuse, gaslighting, control, and manipulation are too often not considered in domestic or intimate partner violence. I have experience with all of these forms of abuse and understand the complexity and difficulty of these relationships.
— Dana Williams, Registered Clinical Social Worker Intern in Palm Harbor, FLDomestic Violence is unfortunately very common. It has its own psychological effects and patterns. If you are a Survivor of DV, it's crucial that your therapist not blame you for the abuse. It's imperative that your counselor be able to Safety Plan with you and to support you in your choices. As someone who specializes in treating victims/Survivors of Domestic Violence, I honor my clients' narratives and respect that they know their situation better than anyone else does.
— Alia Cross, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Buffalo, NY