“Swoon” Show Notes: Episode #95 – Questions About Exes

Jeff Guenther, LPC on Jan 10, 2021 in swoon

Julie and Gina answer listener questions about staying in touch with exes, once a cheater always a cheater, and how long to wait until you get back in the dating game.

This episode covers:

  • What kind of relationship is healthy to maintain with an ex?
  • Should you give love advice to your ex?
  • What should I do if my partner is still talking to his ex?
  • Is the belief 'once a cheater always a cheater' true?
  • How do you know when you're ready to get back in the dating game?
  • How will I know when I am ready for a new relationship?

          Memorable quotes

          "How many people can you be talking about this with other than your ex?"

          "What are our privacy boundaries?"

          "What are the observations that are fueling your anxiety?"

          "There's not an 'it's always healthy' or 'it's never healthy' it really depends on the dynamics."

          "Are you so ready for commitment you're overlooking the truth that's right in front of you?"

          "Are you in a place in your grieving where you can use discernment?"

          Resources from the Podcast

          Sparkle: A Relationship Refresh for 2021

          Love More Fight Less: A Relationship Workbook, Gina Senarighi

          Action Steps

          Join us for Sparkle: A Relationship Refresh for 2021

          Get support

          Sparkle: A Relationship Refresh for 2021

          Love More Fight Less: A Relationship Workbook, Gina Senarighi

          Your Swoon hosts

          Gina Senarighi, MS, MA, CPC is a sexuality counselor and communication consultant specializing in healthy boundaries, passionate relationships, jealousy, and infidelity. She supports non-traditional couples all over the world as a retreat leader and certified relationship coach.
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          Julie Jeske, LPC is a sex and relationship counselor. She has a private practice where she helps clients increase intimacy, ignite passion and deepen their connection to themselves and others. Julie especially loves to help women discover who they are sexually. Through counseling, online classes, or in-person retreats; her clients learn how to talk about their sexual and relationship desires, and explore ways to make them a reality.
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          Jeff Guenther is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ashville, NC.

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