Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is a type of therapy that specifically seeks to help couples prepare for marriage. Premarital counseling can help partners work through current conflicts and also help them to identify areas that might cause conflict in the future – things like raising children, sex, careers plans, or finances. By working through these issues, or developing a plan to address them in the future, couples can learn useful communication tools that will serve them well throughout their relationship. Premarital counseling offers a safe space to discuss any and all concerns relating to a relationship and can benefit all couples are contemplating marriage. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s qualified premarital counseling experts today. 

Meet the specialists

Doing premarital counseling is sometimes very difficult and scary and can be exciting as well! My training is in marriage and family therapy, and so I help you look at the entirety of your lives systemically. Combining two existences into one is complex. I can help you navigate the roller coaster.

— Molly Johnson, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Phoenix, AZ

I apply my learning from the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy, Collaborative Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy to those couples who are considering marriage and want to feel prepared with a solid foundation of skills and self-knowledge to further their relationship.

— Kate McNulty, Clinical Social Worker in Portland, OR

Marriage and commitment is an investment. So why not start your commitment off from a strong point and do some pre-commitment work? Premarital therapy is my jam, and I love when couples come in to have a few sessions prior to taking the plunge. Society often views the wedding as the end goal, however it is just the beginning of a life-long love with ups and downs. In premarital counseling, I help identify current negative interaction patterns which may be getting in the way of communication, as well as identify possible triggers which will pop up here and there throughout the relationship. By establishing a deeper understanding of one another, couples can help support one another during tough times, as well as create a foundation for conflict resolution.

— Miranda Bayard-Clark, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lake Oswego, OR

We love helping premarital couples build a love that will last! Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy helps premarital couples to develop strong communication and bonds to face life's challenges and seasons together. We can help you tackle important conversations around communication, sex, money, religion/spirituality, parenting, trauma histories, facing medical or financial challenges, building strong relationships with in-laws and other extended family, and developing your family rituals and goals. We will help you build strong conflict resolution and communication skills so no matter what the topic or phase of life, you can feel confident that you know how to communicate in ways that you feel understood, responded to, and deeply cared for.

— Thrive Couple & Family Counseling Services, Counselor in Greenwood Village, CO

When couples determine they are ready for greater commitment or marriage, there are many decisions to be made. Who will do what chores in the home, will there be children, how do you raise them, how to blend two families, creating boundaries from in laws, who will do the bills, will you have separate bank accounts, how do you initiate sexual behavior, how to communicate without fighting and many other topics. We will work all of these out and more, and even create written guidelines.

— Elissa Grunblatt, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Amityville, NY

Premarital Counseling is a specialty at AVL Couples Therapy. If you’re a newly engaged couple, you will receive support and guidance as you move toward a deeper level of commitment with your partner. With Premarital Counseling you two can build a strong foundation for continued relationship success.

— Cindy Norton, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Asheville, NC

I love working with couples before they decide to get married. This is a great time to approach couples therapy proactively and work through some of the challenges that the couple will go through throughout their marriage.

— Amanda Woodard, Licensed Professional Counselor in Centennial, CO

Premarital counseling can help you, as a couple, improve your relationship before marriage. Premarital counseling helps you improve your ability to communicate, set realistic expectations for marriage, and develop conflict-resolution skills.

— Ania Scanlan, Counselor in Roseville, MN