Services
- Couples
About My Clients
Between the pursuer and the withdrawer is a dance and underneath the criticism and defensiveness is a longing. Between the stonewalling and contempt- a deep hurt, an unexpressed need. Couples engage in a dance, each move evokes a counter response, trying to establish a rhythm in the pain of injured toes can feel hopeless at times. I can help you to make a new meaning of your current struggle, to regain a positive image of your partner and to help you attend to each other's pain.
My Background and Approach
In the last decade, I have helped couples address some of the most difficult issues presented when life gets really hard. Issues around intimacy and sexuality, infidelity, trust, boundaries, and communication. I come from a systemic background looking at how our family of origin, culture, and partner influence how we show up to our relationship.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I believe that we are born to attach, our survival depends on it when we are infants and our success depends on it when we are adults. When people at any age and in any given circumstance are able to develop relationships where they feel loved, safe, accepted, and have a responsibility, they face life with resilience and purpose.