Randi Kofsky (she/her)

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Marriage & Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA

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About My Clients

Uncover Real Confidence Recovering Golden Children, took care of some aspect of their parents' emotional well-being. Whether by performing well in school, sports or other talents, or being a pseudo-spouse, helper and confidant. The fallout as an adult often is a combination of Perfectionism, People Pleasing, Co-dependency and at times, overwhelming Anxiety. Couples: Affectionate Roommates: Eroticism 101 Sex used to be a natural part of your relationship, but it's dwindled & you want it back!

My Background and Approach

The Truth is Anxiety comes in all forms and sometimes can blow up into a full attack. Other times in may eat away at you filling you with Doubt , Guilt and Shame. You've designed very clever ways to disguise your inner turmoil, and chances are you also had a role model for how to be Anxious. Using Depth-Oriented, Experiential & Holistic Mind-Body lenses, I help clients discover the underpinnings of old beliefs that helped them Survive, and upgrade them to enter into Revive and Thrive modes of living. Clients who love working with me describe my approach as present, knowledgeable (especially about Anxiety, Depression, Attachment & Trauma), engaging and BS free. Humor is important as is a conversational tone, though I won’t let you talk us in circles around things you’re afraid to talk about. I’ll guide you into feeling your body as well as your feelings and as we respectfully unravel these patterns and shine light on new ways to Think, Feel and Be.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

Therapy is a critical piece in the Personal Growth puzzle. It's not the endgame, but it's a good beginning (or continuation) to understand what happens for you emotionally, how you tend to roll with what you do & *don't* know about yourself and how this has a Direct Impact on the Life you are Creating and your Important Relationships. From a young age many people have learned to keep emotions at a "healthy" distance which often resulted in putting them into "Good" and "Bad" boxes with a clear message on which to cultivate. The reality is that emotions are fluid in range & texture & they all have value as an intricate part of your internal communication system. If you don't know what or that you are feeling, you are cut off from a significant place within, forcing you to focus more on what exists outside of you and less on what you actually have influence over (cue: control issues). Getting a handle on Anxiety and learning to feel feelings is a game changer towards your self-worth.

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I offer online counseling in the following states:

At A Glance

  • Experience: 8 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $200 - 300/session


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2665 30th Street
Santa Monica, CA 90405

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