Services
- Individual
- Couples
- Adolescent/Teen
About My Clients
*As a licensed psychologist, I can help you with all types of issues, from severely distressing vanilla life issues, (grief, divorce, health problems) to more intimate personal issues, such as sexual issues. *Coaching to help you attract and keep sexual/romantic partners. *Coaching for Dom/sub. *I want to help empower clients to explore and grow. Exploring non-monogamy/swinging and BDSM issues are specific areas of specialty, but all fetishes are welcome. *Trauma counseling.
My Background and Approach
You need to be able to connect and trust your therapist. You need to know they genuinely care about you. I do have both a Master's degree and a Doctoral degree in Psychology. I have 22 years post grad experience counseling, 28 years of counseling all together. My professors were ex-hippies and hated the traditional, doctor knows it all-medical model. The client is the expert on their life, but my job is to help them feel heard, understood, and accepted. I then I have to lead the client to a new perspective, to get them out of their rut. I primarily use cognitive behavioral therapy. Our thinking causes our emotion. We are ultimately in control of our emotions. We just need to become more aware of our unrealized thoughts that can negatively control us.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
"Safe, sane, and consensual." That's the motto for The Lifestyle, yet it is a good motto for me in therapy and in helping people with their hurting. I value and respect each person as their own unique individual. I believe sex is an important part of life and should not be hidden or ashamed of. Relationships, intimacy, peace of mind - LOVE- are more important of course.