Infidelity or Affairs

Infidelity, or cheating, in a relationship or marriage can be devastating and may mark the end the relationship. However, sometimes couples (either with the help of a professional or on their own) can repair the relationship and develop an even stronger, healthier bond. Infidelity can cause a myriad of feelings in both partners, including confusion, grief, guilt, anger, and betrayal. A therapist specializing in infidelity is trained to help you and your partner(s) develop tools to better communicate (and fight constructively) and move past the affair. In addition to helping those who have experienced cheating in a relationship recover, counseling for infidelity can also be helpful if you and your partner are considering a breakup or a divorce – having a professional guide you can aide the both of you in making an informed decision. Think it might be time to give counseling a try? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s affairs/infidelity experts today.

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Infidelity is one of the most hurtful experiences in life. However, I've also had numerous clients of mine tell me how infidelity has allowed them to understand each other more effectively and as a result, have a BETTER relationship. While it's not ideal to go through infidelity, it does not have to be the end of the relationship. Couples therapy is the most direct way to address what went wrong and what needs to be different. I'll show you concrete steps to overcome the infidelity challenges.

— KIN LEUNG, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Burlingame, CA

Infidelity tends to erode and sometimes destroy the very fabric relationhips are built on: trust. How does one move forward past the affair so healthy patterns and behaviors can be restablished. Learning to identify the core issues behind the affair as well as to address the trauma of the hurt is essential to the healing process.

— Anthony Gambuzza, Psychologist in Stamford, CT

Are You Struggling With? Confusion about ending your relationship Being understood by your partner Insecurity because you cannot resolve the past Loneliness because you feel your relationship is unfulfilling Anxiety because your future with your partner is uncertain Our Services Help With Communicate more effectively, so you can have difficult conversations with ease Rebuild trust, so you can feel more secure and regain hope for the future Let go of the past, so you can be more present Find las

— Bevill and Associates LLC, Licensed Professional Counselor in Birmingham, AL

I have been providing couples with support and techniques to navigate the impact of infidelity or affairs on their relationship. For many years I have successfully helped clients heal and rebuild their relationship.

— Cara Allan, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Denver, CO

There are many reasons why someone might stray from their intimate partner. Statics say that 30% of a couples deal with infidelity in their relationship. Affairs can occur in 'happy' relationships and in troubled relationships. Affairs can be result of personal dissatisfaction in a relationship and or dissatisfaction within your partner. I do believe that a relationship can heal from an affair and that with the right therapuetic approach a couple can be healed from an affair.

— Galina Litvin, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Ramon, CA

You just found out. You are probably asking yourself, "How could I have been so stupid?", "How can I ever forgive?", "Do I want to forgive?" Learning that our partner has been unfaithful is devastating. Your heart has been torn in two pieces and you flip flop between sadness and anger. You don't know if you can ever trust anyone again. Whether you decide to stay in the relationship or decide to move on, learning to trust again is hard but with help and guidance you can recover!

— Lisa Dyck, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Westlake Village, CA

I provide a clear eyed, nonjudgmental, expansive approach to infidelity, beyond the bad/good dichotomy.

— Kerry Cohen, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, OR

Affairs does not mean its the end of the relationship. Its an opportunity to re-evaluate where life got so overwhelming that we stopped listening to each other and started looking elsewhere to get our needs met. Its an opportunity for your relationship to rise out of the ashes like a phoenix ..stronger than before!

— Della Fernandes, Counselor in Burlingame, CA

I have helped numerous couple's overcome infidelity within their relationships. I like to use emotion focused therapy, Gottman Method, and Relational Life Therapy, and various other forms of counseling to move the individual or couple through their stuck points, build their foundation back up, and find trust again.

— Julia Ayraud, Counselor in The Woodlands, TX

Infidelity or affairs are sexual relationships that exceed the agreed upon boundaries of a relationship. They are symptoms of often submerged problems in the people and/or the relationship. And they do damage. Recovering trust involves courageous commitment to honesty, faithfulness, guts, and forgiveness. And healing the relationship involves identifying and addressing the issues that produced the symptom of infidelity. Recovering from infidelity is hard work, takes time, and is worth it.

— Michael Johnson, Psychologist in AUSTIN, TX, TX

The one thing that you had never imagined happening to you just did. Your partner cheated on you. You feel betrayed and devastated and what you once knew as “your life” suddenly stops being your life. You are in shock and you can’t sleep or eat anything. You keep thinking about your partner being intimate with that other person and you feel like you’re going crazy. How can you even begin to think about forgiveness? And if you can’t forgive them, then what? Contact me today!

— Eleni Economides, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Rochester, NY

Infidelity does not mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes it does for a number of reasons. Sometimes the couple come together and realize they are better together than apart. We are all unique and no one story or consequence is the same. If you are a single or married woman trying your best to cope with your partner's cheating, but feel like you're emotionally coming apart at the seams, therapy through Confidence Creator Counseling may be exactly what you need.

— Sally Raiford, MA, LMFT, CH, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Tampa, FL

In addition to being an Licensed Professional Counselor Intern in TX, I am also a Certified Sex Therapist through the Texas Sex Therapy Institute. I completed additional education and training in order to be competent to work with couples struggling with infidelity or affairs.

— Katherine Mitchell, Counselor in Houston, TX

It feels like the end, but betrayal can be the beginning. When everything is on the table and no one is holding back, the real communication begins and so does the healing.

— Stefanie Rosen, Marriage & Family Therapist in Westlake Village, CA

Are you reeling from the recent discovery of your partner's infidelity? Do you feel like you're losing your mind? Are you embarrassed, angry, scared, and still in love? I can help you share your truths, develop a deeper understanding of your relationship vulnerabilities and how you arrived at this place, and help you create a roadmap to a new and better relationship. There are no "bad guys," just two people in need of a deeper understanding from the other.

— Michele OMara, Counselor in Plainfield, IN